"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Would U B concerned about your wife divorcing U after going thru professional school?

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Scaramouche

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Dear MDJ,
What an amazing Yarn,Thanks for posting that!
 

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If it's the one I'm thinking about, he's killed 3 people, not betting he's normal
What I WOULD be worried about is her going to school.... THEN divorcing me while she had NO income.... Alimony would be higher.
 

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sodbuster said:
If it's the one I'm thinking about, he's killed 3 people, not betting he's normal
What I WOULD be worried about is her going to school.... THEN divorcing me while she had NO income.... Alimony would be higher.

This is something that women do all the time, they also will marry a guy just to get him to "be a real man" and work to pay off her student loans.
 

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Guy was certainly off his meds. I do recall that when my ex and I split she tried sticking me with half her college loans. A good attorney saved my bacon. The argument is that I was not entitled to any of the benefit of said education in the future, therefore I wasn't due to pay any % thereof.
I certainly understand the rage of a guy that felt duped but that's where having a good network guy friends makes the difference. Losing your $hit won't help anything.

KC
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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