"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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There are these 2 girls i know in my class, im friends with one, and just met the other one. I always talk to them when I go in. Im thinking of doing this to the one I just met

*after talking ot hte girl I dont know*
me: there is no reason to be mad
her: what are you talking about
me: *walks away back to my seat in class, leaving her wondering*

*after class she will come up to me wondering what is going on*

her: why am I mad?
me: *maybe using some kino and looking directly into her eyes, smiling*
Because you want me, but you know you cant have me *and then just turn around andwalk away*.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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There's only one way to know if that will work or not--even if someone has been in the same situation, because every person is different.

Are you ready for the answer...

The ONLY WAY YOU WILL KNOW IF IT WOULD WORK IS:





1. To try it and see what happens.
 
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Originally posted by The Nice Guy is Gone
There's only one way to know if that will work or not--even if someone has been in the same situation, because every person is different.

Are you ready for the answer...

The ONLY WAY YOU WILL KNOW IF IT WOULD WORK IS:





1. To try it and see what happens.
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well i think she is coming over tonight, so im gona try and do it then, or just try and get her number (been reading the DJ Bible all day)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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