"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Would this be a good opener?

DJO.V.Dose

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if you went up to some girl u dont know and asked her to "reject you" because your friend says youve never been rejected...so u tell her ur gonna say sum corney line and she could make a frowny face or sumthin..then after that is over with act like she did u a favor and introduce yourself / get to know her / get her phone number. What do you think would it work?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by DJO.V.Dose
if you went up to some girl u dont know and asked her to "reject you" because your friend says youve never been rejected...so u tell her ur gonna say sum corney line and she could make a frowny face or sumthin..then after that is over with act like she did u a favor and introduce yourself / get to know her / get her phone number. What do you think would it work?
i think its stupid/weird....

but try it
 
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She'll think you are in grade school and she'll think you couldn't come up with a better approach. But what the hell at least you had the nerve to embarass yourself:)

Ooops! Sorry about that, I just saw your age, you are in grade school:)
 

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Nah, for one, to pull that off you need mad game + radiating confidence and I am guessing you are "lacking" in that respect. Also, people of your age are a little more superficial and would laugh at that approach (although people of college age would do the same). The line is pretty sh*tty + sounds real fake because you're obviously trying to convince her to think you've got game, nobody does that, not even Fingers or Mystery. If you have game, they should reach that conclusion on their own, you can't convince someone to like you or think you're pimp. But, from an educational point of view, go for it, start racketing up your 10 rejections.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MVP got a point there.......you cant convince her that youve got game that just sounds stupid. now that line might work for your female friends bu dont use it to strangers, that's just bad first impression
 

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I give you props for being 16 and trying to think of new approaches

But you seem like you have a mental script written of what YOU THINK will happen

but even mentioning rejection to a girl, makes her KNOW its on YOUR mind (like you are thinking about rejection)

Secondly, I think most girls will say something to the effect of "Ohh So you have never been rejected? Now you Have! Buh BYE!"

use the energy you have to approach a girl showing you have some value as a person versus "a guy thats never been rejected"
 

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the best players get rejected. i wouldn't recommend it. i think itz too ****y. as in bad ****y. without the funny.

just use pacing.
 

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Convincing a girl you have game is a bad idea?

What about commenting on and making fun of all the AFCs of the world/at the venue in a subtle kind of way, hence implying you have better game and more confidence?

I can remember at least one FR where the guy did something like this.
 
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