Would shaggin' a lot have any "negative" side effects?

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Currently I have a FB at the college I live in. We pretty much shag all the time whenever I feel like. Sometime I think we spend more time naked than not.

Today I shagged her after lunch and before dinner. This girl really loves it . She pretty athletic and can keep up with me.

The problem is that we shag all the time and was thinking to myself if shagging too much has a negative effect on the body and mind. Am I *blowing* my "lifeforce" away by ejaculating too much?
 

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it's good for the heart and lungs because it's a cardio vascular activity. :)
 

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Yea I know its good for a cardio workout and I can already see that I'm more toner than usual. And everytime I do it, get better at it and learn to control WHEN I want to ejaculate. E.g. I decide if I want to last for 5 minutes or 2 hours with the same intensity. Lol I should try become a pornstar.

But does ejaculating more than usual have any detrimental effects on the body? Like how would the body differentiate masturbating and actual sex.

Is there an actual safe number of times you can have sex? There are physiological benefits that are proven but not sure about how sex improves spirituality or increase testosterone levels.

By the way I'm talking about normal, natural sex. Just purely caveman sex. No whips or minatrix or anal lol
 
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there is absolutely no physical harm or influence done to the body from sex. sex does only good things for the body (besides stds etc. lol)

you'll be fine. just a lot less horny during the day ;)
 

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Yea exactly....I feel a lot less horny during the day

But i think I need to slow down....horny=aggression is good to keep and I want to use it to fuel me and be more productive with other things.

I notice that I feel really worn down and don't have any motivation to do other things I planned to do during the day. Sex probably takes up a few hours of my time during the day:

1. The actual Sex...(walking around getting ready, foreplay, penetration etc) takes roughly around 2-3 hours

2. Shower and Clean up...ICKY stuff...I always HAVE to wash up after stabbin abs. Wash tubesteak and freshen up after a rough tumble. takes roughly 1 hour

3. *Sadly* I do go all out and make her come a few times. That takes a lot of energy and I'm absolutely worn out. Soooo...I would have to crash and sleep...takes around 1 to 5 hours

At the moment I feel wrecked today and haven't done anything productive so I think I have to cut down on sex and make it more QUALITY rather than QUANTITY.
 

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Doesnt your d1ck need some time to recover? For example if you have sex twice in a few hours, it actually hurts a bit.
 

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Yea ya cap tends to get a wee bit tender...but I ALWAYS use a condom so the friction doesn't hurt as much.

I never really notice it until I'm trying to sleep later at night.
 

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99% of men here prolly don't get sex often. You on the other hand are concerned about having too much of it. Certainly puts things into perspective LOL

Here's an idea: Stop having sex with her for a fortnight.

I don't think there is any negative physical effects, but as you said you feel drained during the day so it could effect your studies/work. & yes, people would get sick of sex if they are getting often.
 

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Rudy my man

The 1 to 5 hours of sleep/2-3 hours to have sex are definitely taking a toll.

You wouldn't be asking if you weren't having some ill effects

I'm telling you now, not so much time doing the same thing. Your sounding boring now, set time limits and such.

I do my duty, get funky, and wash the funk in two hours tops. From initial EC to drying myself off.

I've lots of friends who've gained pound after pound(while the girl stays fit as brick) because after sex all they want to do is sleep:p

Your choice, if you need to sleep so long just bang her once a day, but I recommend start doiung some cardio and getting your system used to the work.

You've heard all of the stories saying sex takes so many calories? I can burn off that many in 10 minute vigorous work out. Sex is in and out, it doesn't work very many muscles, your just foolin yourself.

Oh yeah, but you do get the endorphines and brain juice that make you happier and smarter to protect all of the children your now going to have;)
 

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The only negative I experience is that I'm not in the mood very often. I think I now take sex for granted.

The only time I want to is when it's with a new girl...I've been "trying" to cut back for the last few months.
 

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Yea I think I take sex for granted now...my FB is leaving for good in a week so I'm back to zero after that unless I get myself another one.

Im definitely a *pringle*...."once you POP you'll never STOP"!!!
 

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I had your problem in college.. i had 2 fbs, my balls would always hurt, i would be worn out, never felt like going to the gym. I miss those days :(
 

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Help me on this...


Say...

Person A: Only Ejaculates ONCE a week (sex/artifical)

Person B: Masturbates EVERYDAY

Person C: Has sex at least Once everyday

What sort of physiological or psychological changes would take place for these people. (in terms of testosterone, aggression, energy levels.)

Is there any other changes apart from scientific human changes? Is there any spiritual benefit or growth by only ejaculating rarely?

Can anyone explain the mystery of sex transmutation?
 

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Now that I'm home away from uni and unfortunately, hot girls I'm shaggin, I seem to be thinking more clearly and more productive with my time.

I honestly think my mind is clouded when I'm shaggin all the time. So now, with my clear mind and blue balls, I'm making plans and earning money and being more productive.


Dunno if it's worth having blue balls 24-7 tho lol
 

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everyone's different.


i noticed lately that the more frequently I ejaculate, the more clouded and passive I feel.

If I only have sex once a week and try and completely cut out masturbation, i feel alot more energetic.


i really DO think there's a such thing as Too much sex. Over the longterm, anyways.

Having a few days where you shag like rabbits won't hurt, but do it every day for a month or two and tell me how you feel.
 

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Rudy if lying was 5 stars, your ass would of earn 6.
You ain't having too much sex "mate"...more like you're masturbating too much and worried about the side effects. Be true to yaself man.........If u need a new so called FB, come sarging with me, thats if ur from Brissy- I can round up a few hotties.

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Rudy if lying was 5 stars, your ass would of earn 6.
You ain't having too much sex "mate"...more like you're masturbating too much and worried about the side effects. Be true to yaself man.........If u need a new so called FB, come sarging with me, thats if ur from Brissy- I can round up a few hotties.

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haha. yeah, i smell bull**** too.

but anyways, if you do at some point end up having lots of sex... youll probably notice that too much of it is going to fvck up your schedule. it will take away from everything else you need to accomplish. sex being your number one priority, day after day, will halt your productivity for money, health, intelligence, or whatever else your goals are.

some guys can handle cumming every day without letting it detract from other important things. if you cant, then dont. everybody is different.

-SLB
 

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But does ejaculating more than usual have any detrimental effects on the body?
No. Ejaculating les is detrimental. Just think, everytime you have sex with her, you're fighting prostate cancer.
 
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