"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Would oyu help a stranger?

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This is just a totally random question i thought of while watching final destination. I tried to put in terms of a real life situation. So i ask, if you saw a stranger dying would you try and help them even if it meant putting your own life at potential risk. For example if someone was drowning, or a fire lets say. I know it would be easy to say "yes or course i would help them", but if you were actualy in that situation i am curious as to what your instinct would tell you. Me personally i dont know what i would do, my first thought is i would try and get help, but there may not be time for that. I remember in psychology class years ago, mentioning something about this human mechanisnm, and how it is in our nature to help that person even if we do not know them , or something along those lines. Anyways yah h id like to hear some thoughts
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You also have to rationalize IF your even able to help the person in trouble in the first place. Everyone wants to be the hero but dont have the skills to actually do anything for that person.

Case in point: Week ago.....2 guys went to the beach after a semi hurricane (Didnt hit us) the waves were pretty big compared to normal.

First guy gets to far and gets caught by the riptide and starts freaking out, 2nd guy goes out after him to help......
The 2ND guy as in the guy that went to help his friend...DIED while the first guy is in the hospital. The 2nd guy wasnt in physical shape to help his friend AND have enough strength to swim against the riptide with another person.
 
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