Ok first off take note of the title. Usually i would say fvck it and move on...but i got like 3 days of school left and not a whole lot of time left to pimp my sh!t before summer starts. Anyways the situation-
First met her about a month ago, on first day got her home/cell number and gave her mine. Well at that point she had a bf and one of my friends was into her. Well anyways i kept up mystery, but all had her on the ground laughin and in short, my game was right on. Well about a two weeks ago the bf was gone, so my friend was the only thing stoppin me now (was seein girls between these times, just found out by chance that she was available)
Well last saturday night, it was a kind of boys night out kind of thing with my folks out of town, so me n some friends got stoned and drunk as hell. (This girl's pretty against this kind of thing) Well i wake up in the morning still baked and hung over to my cell phone ringing. I pick it up and its her wanting to hang out. In my confused state i mumbled and "Ok...we'll be there in 30". About .03 seconds after hanging up the phone i realize that A. I had just invited my friends to go as well (no license, so one friend who could drive wuold have to be going anyways) and B. I was still pretty ****ed up. Anyways the day went on and i was trying way to hard to mack her, and it pretty much just made me look a little desperate. All of this past week, however, shes still been approaching me at school, IMing me whenever i get online, and so i was thinking "Man, im still in this!"
Thursday night though, a friend of mine (One who used to like her, but told me he didn't want her anymore and that i should go for it) said some stupid **** about my AFC days to her. Friday she seemed a little less in to me than before.
My question (finally
) is what i should do in the next 3 days to try and get a date with her, while making it clear that im not gonna settle with just being friends? I'm not infatuated with her or anything, but seeing as schools almost over im thinkin "what the hell, why not?". I have a feeling that as is, I'm not in the friends zone yet, but that she would decline if i asked her out. Should i explain that the AFCness my friend spoke of was a part of my past? Or maybe just lay down the cards "hey I'm going to play some mini-golf this weekend? wanna shag?"? Any help appreciated, i would rather not have to worry about hittin up the mall or anything as im goin on a job search these next couple weekends and won't have awhole lot of macking time.
First met her about a month ago, on first day got her home/cell number and gave her mine. Well at that point she had a bf and one of my friends was into her. Well anyways i kept up mystery, but all had her on the ground laughin and in short, my game was right on. Well about a two weeks ago the bf was gone, so my friend was the only thing stoppin me now (was seein girls between these times, just found out by chance that she was available)
Well last saturday night, it was a kind of boys night out kind of thing with my folks out of town, so me n some friends got stoned and drunk as hell. (This girl's pretty against this kind of thing) Well i wake up in the morning still baked and hung over to my cell phone ringing. I pick it up and its her wanting to hang out. In my confused state i mumbled and "Ok...we'll be there in 30". About .03 seconds after hanging up the phone i realize that A. I had just invited my friends to go as well (no license, so one friend who could drive wuold have to be going anyways) and B. I was still pretty ****ed up. Anyways the day went on and i was trying way to hard to mack her, and it pretty much just made me look a little desperate. All of this past week, however, shes still been approaching me at school, IMing me whenever i get online, and so i was thinking "Man, im still in this!"
Thursday night though, a friend of mine (One who used to like her, but told me he didn't want her anymore and that i should go for it) said some stupid **** about my AFC days to her. Friday she seemed a little less in to me than before.
My question (finally
) is what i should do in the next 3 days to try and get a date with her, while making it clear that im not gonna settle with just being friends? I'm not infatuated with her or anything, but seeing as schools almost over im thinkin "what the hell, why not?". I have a feeling that as is, I'm not in the friends zone yet, but that she would decline if i asked her out. Should i explain that the AFCness my friend spoke of was a part of my past? Or maybe just lay down the cards "hey I'm going to play some mini-golf this weekend? wanna shag?"? Any help appreciated, i would rather not have to worry about hittin up the mall or anything as im goin on a job search these next couple weekends and won't have awhole lot of macking time.