"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So I've been seeing this girl for the past couple of months. Nothing serious. It's usually just a quick chat and a see you later type of thing. But I decided to take things up a notch and made out with her a couple of times during the past month. Thing is, I just found out she had a bf and broke up with him recently. They had been going out for many months.

My questions are:

Is she using me as a rebound?

Did she break up with her bf because of me?

Don't you think making out with another guy other than your bf would make the girl untrustworthy? Or am I just that much better than her bf?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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well what u really should be wondering is what do you want from this girl ?

is it just someone you lust for , want to have sex with , then who cares if shes trustworthy ....

or do u want a rlt with her..... i wouldnt , cuz if she made out with you several times while she had a bf then she cant really be trusted.... but if she made out with you once while having a bf i would perhaps consider having her as a gf.....

to answer your first question .....

dont think shes using you as a rebound, but could be... dont really know u two so cant say....
she could either have broken up with her bf cuz she likes you or he could have found out and broke it up with her.....
 
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At the end of the day the answers to your questions are meaningless.

Stop thinking to much....
 
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Originally posted by adamjones
At the end of the day the answers to your questions are meaningless.

Stop thinking to much....
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This mans exactly right bro!! Just have fun with this girl. Dont worry about the small ****. Go out meet other women, and If this girl is legit, you will find out soon enough.

"I do know one thing *****es they come they go. Saturday thrue sunday, monday. Monday thrue sunday yo. Maybe I"ll love you oneday. Maybe we will someday grow. Till then just sit yo drunk ass on that ****in runway hoe"-Eminem.

Not to the point, but a good way to live your life with women.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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