"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Would like some advice

Zaraza

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Ok guys lay on the advice and do it in layers! lets here it.

I got a friend coming over tomorrow night, just her and i, the main idea is to drink (got a bottle of vodka)....and well progress things and possibly get laid. So until we get drunk what are some good ways to get drunk with vodka lol. what i mean is whats a good way to enjoy time together before we are ontop of each other...? movie? fireplace? a game of vodka shots?

i havnt drank in a while, **** i have been busy with school and work that i am over thinking this.

She likes the idea of coming over and drinking, she knows we will be alone, i know she feels that im hot. so lets here the suggestions.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Jaxon

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Dude this is money in the bank. 99% of the time a girl is willing to be alone with you at your place she's willing to put out.

If it were me I'd get the drinking started right away with a casual drink or two, then give her a tour of the place.

Then I'd pop a movie in, because that's a foolproof way to get ass. If she stops drinking during the movie, get up and make her an alcoholic desert-type beverage. Don't ask her if she wants it, just make it and give it to her. She will drink it.

Make sure you're both sitting on the couch and that you have some comfortable pillows nearby. Start by either putting your arm around her or holding her hand and massaging it very lightly.

Then say something like "Let's get more comfortable" and lay down so that your back is up against the back of the couch and you're facing the TV. She will lay in front of you so that you guys will basically be spooning.

From here wait a little while so that it doesn't become an all-out assault on her. Then go for the shoulder kiss. If she has a t-shirt on or something where her shoulder isn't exposed, move the clothing, lightly kiss her shoulder, and move it back. It's a pretty clear signal and she will respond to it. If she doesn't then she really doesn't want anything to do with you, but I can almost guarantee you she will respond.

From here just escalate it as you see fit, but this is how I do it almost every time and it's money in the bank.
 

christz

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i agree if a girl is willing to be alone with you at your place or her place she'll put out.. unless you guys are just friends.
 

Brians_600rr

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LOL this is great!!

I think popping in the movie is a great idea. hell its wat i do..

BUT the one thing u definitely need is POPCORN!! This move is GOLDEN!! Make some popcorn and when ur sitting there eating it. start throwing it at her in a playful way.. now i dont mean chucking it at her lol just throw it at her. and when u hit her just ignore her like u did nothing! it sets the playful mood. in my case this usually leads to a little wrestling match on the couch then to kissing and so on and so on.

GOOD LUCK MAN!!!!
 
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