Would like a bit of input on this... Nothing major.

[wjh]

Last night out with friends was a blast. Talked to at least 20-25 girls, I don't even know, I lost count.

Before even going out we stopped by a gas station. I saw a tall, blonde HB9-10, whatever, she was hot.

I literally stopped her as she was pulling off, asked her what she was doing tonight and she says "I'm going to see my boyfriend" and I kind of chuckle a bit and say "well give me your phone number and I'll call you, what's your name?" she gives me her name, and as I get my phone to put her number in, I find out it's DEAD. So I tell her to write her number down, and her pen breaks, at this point we're laughing and she's telling me "it's fate" and I'm like, "haha, no I just have to be persistant" - so a moment or two later she asks me my name and finally the pen works. She writes it down. Good energy, while she was writing her number down she had a huge smile across her face and she started talking in her sexy voice. I'm in there like swimwear.

I eject with number in hand and she leaves.

Now my question is... Should her telling me that she was going to see her boyfriend cause me any concern? I really don't know if that was just a standard rejection she throws out there for reactions, or if she really was going to see her boyfriend lol.

So I'm assuming that when I do call her, sometime next week, I'll ask her out for a couple drinks and not even bring up the boyfriend thing... AT ALL... Right? Because, assuming she actually does have a boyfriend, if she really was into him she wouldn't be handing out her number and going to bars with guys... Oh well we'll see I'll update this when I call her and set up a date.

P.S., I got some hilarious rejections last night.

Some of you noobs, getting over your approach anxiety takes time but it's worth the difficulty in overcoming it. Afterall a while you really stop caring about what any girl says.

 

[WC2]

Women give numbers out even when they have no intention of cheating on their boyfriend. You just never know.

Most of the boneheads on this board will tell you - Do not bring up the boyfriend during your date, thats a NO-NO!

Please. Talk about whatever you want. Be a man. If she has intentions of cheating on her boyfriend with you, bringing him up isn't going to save his ass and ruin yours.

If she's wanting you while she's still with him, he's obviously no doing something right. Morals might come in here, but in my eyes a boyfriend is just that. A Boy-friend. Much different from married women.

Believe it or not, I almost always bring up the boyfriend mumbo jumbo when a girl in a relationship is digging me. It starts off with a little playful, so why are you out with me? Before you know it, I've had girls telling me how their boyfriend never gives her an orgasm,etc. Pretty raunchy stuff, but like I said, he's obviously not doing something right.

Say what you want. Bask in your manliness.

 

[DJsomeday]

P.S., I got some hilarious rejections last night.

I wish i could have that attitude man, how did you develop it? I've been working on it making things like "OK! i'll get 10 rejections tonight !" and usually some girls i thought were not gonna respond to me actually were pretty fun and good!. Thing is, rejection still affects me, like i feel it throws my game away, specially in a night when i'm not feeling all that on point or outgoing.

Any tips for handling rejections? PM me please if it's too off topic for this thread.

Thanks

 

[TheEdgeOf]

I wish i could have that attitude man, how did you develop it? I've been working on it making things like "OK! i'll get 10 rejections tonight !" and usually some girls i thought were not gonna respond to me actually were pretty fun and good!. Thing is, rejection still affects me, like i feel it throws my game away, specially in a night when i'm not feeling all that on point or outgoing.

Any tips for handling rejections? PM me please if it's too off topic for this thread.

Thanks

Whenever you get rejected, just say to yourself "She was probably a lesbian."

And if that doesn't work, picture her taking a massive dump.

 

[wjh]

Well, I just got off the phone with her. Kept the phone call short. Just wanted a couple details about her. I confirmed that she in fact did NOT have a boyfriend.

She gave me her number because I was persistent (eh, I used the word, she's just feeding off it).

She told me that boyfriend line because she wasn't used to guys hitting her up at a gas station. I'm not surprised, but the best part is that there were guys saying stupid crap while she was actually pumping her gas (before I stopped her). Learn from that if you're a noob.

I called at 9:30pm, not late, not early. I didn't ask to take her to some boring dinner, just drinks. She's 23, and I'm pretty sure she likes to party a bit. We're going out this Wednesday. I don't presume to ask a girl I barely know to drinks or whatever on a Thursday/Friday/Saturday - those are usually days people go out with their friends.

Anyhow, I'll tell you guys know how it goes. So far so good.

 

[sprint]

wow one of the rare examples where a cold approach seems to have actually worked...

 

[wjh]

It makes a difference when you're out with your boys and they're encouraging and supportive (to a degree) or in awe of your balls.

But it also helps if you continually put yourself out their and take risks. Really, the worst that can happen is not that bad. A bruised ego? Get over it. No one cares.

You need to have some thick skin in this world. And you have to truly master "keeping frame" - as long as everything is on your terms, you have nothing to lose. Don't balk, don't shy away. Grab your balls and say "f*ck it!" - it's all in your attitude. And if she says "**** you you piece of **** donkey ****ing **** sucker BLAH BLAH BLAH" - she's psychotic! You can laugh at that!

Most rejections REALLY aren't that bad. Most rejections are "sorry, I have a boyfriend" or just plain "no, sorry" - but that's why you practice. You have to pick up on body language, use timing to your advantage, and just have a great attitude. That's attractive, that's smart, that's cool, and that's confident.

Just because you're wrong, or you make errors, does not mean you are an idiot, or not confident, or worthless. You can screw up BADLY and still be a confident bad ass. Even when you mess up, own your mistakes and learn from them. THAT is what a man does. THAT is what is attractive to women.

Good luck!

I wish i could have that attitude man, how did you develop it? I've been working on it making things like "OK! i'll get 10 rejections tonight !" and usually some girls i thought were not gonna respond to me actually were pretty fun and good!. Thing is, rejection still affects me, like i feel it throws my game away, specially in a night when i'm not feeling all that on point or outgoing.

Any tips for handling rejections? PM me please if it's too off topic for this thread.

Thanks

 

[wjh]

wow one of the rare examples where a cold approach seems to have actually worked...

It's NOT rare.

Some of you guys just have limiting beliefs and not enough practice.

I would submit that the VAST majority of guys doing cold approaches have less than 250 cold approaches under their belts. I've done 20-30 in one night, with multiple girls in multiple sets. How many have you done? Ultimately you're responsible for your own successes and your own failures. Cold approaching is just ONE tool for building your success with women. You either utilize it the way it's meant to be utilized (by approaching a large number of women) or you don't.

Take your pick.

P.S. guys, look up some of my OLD history, I was such a pu$$y, I had AFC Oneitis more than once. I feel MUCH more confident and capable but it's taken a few years to build that up LOL

 

[wjh]

Soooooo, this girl flaked on me.

Terrible, right? Not if you're me

Guess what I did in waiting/being flaked on? I met new girls. And I ended up in a jacuzzi, drinking and partying, till 6AM.

I just woke up.