Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Would Lenny Kravitz Snoop on Her Emails

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Doc Love is wrong.
In this article he says
I wouldn't want her talking to other guys. It has nothing to do with jealousy. It has to do with RESPECT.
If you have read the article you would know that it isnt out of respect that doctor love doesnt want amber speaking to other guys, its out of jealousy, not respect.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Don_Joffe
Doc Love is wrong.
In this article he says
I wouldn't want her talking to other guys. It has nothing to do with jealousy. It has to do with RESPECT.
If you have read the article you would know that it isnt out of respect that doctor love doesnt want amber speaking to other guys, its out of jealousy, not respect.
He's human like everyone else, even he isn't perfect with women...
 

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That maybe so, then someone should remove or edit that article.
Just a notice for eveyrone else reading this: read that article before commenting on my post and You will understand why its Jealousy if he tells her to stop speaking to other guys.
 

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I wouldn't pay $100 for an average human's advice.
 

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The larger question here is, who the hell would want to be like Lenny Kravitz in the first place?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by alboh
The larger question here is, who the hell would want to be like Lenny Kravitz in the first place?
Well, I believe he's black or atleast darker skinned for starters . But other than the fact that he has some talent as a musician and has lots of money, I don't think I would want to be him either.
 

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when he says now you're cooking with gas he aint kidding around. That is a sure fire way to get yourself burned.

I think you are dead on though about the fact that spying on someone is done out of jealousy. There was a thread here the other day where a guy was writing about his girl looking at his phone and then trying to get pissy about it. I also have had girls do this to me. They got the boot. Doc Love trys saying that the girl in question has low self-esteem and what not, I think the guy who spys has much lower self esteem and probably got the boot himself.
 

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I wouldn't pay $100 for an average human's advice.
aahha, and this why something will be available very soon, that will not only be super cheap, but shall we say ... anyway, it will be kewl. I'll keep you posted.
 

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You guys wouldnt believe how much I hate it when I open up the frontpage and the first thing that catches my eye is one of these "Would Tom Cruise do this?" "Would Sylvester Stallone act like that?" "Would George Clooney **** that hoe?" lines
 

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Originally posted by madgame
You guys wouldnt believe how much I hate it when I open up the frontpage and the first thing that catches my eye is one of these "Would Tom Cruise do this?" "Would Sylvester Stallone act like that?" "Would George Clooney **** that hoe?" lines
I agree
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Doc Love methods suck. He says not to touch woman, let her touch u(a.k.a do not perform Kino). If u dont perform kino, how will u create attraction then?
 

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LAdawg,

I actually would agree with doc love on that. Kino is not the only way to get a girl attracted. To be honest I consider kino pretty weak and it can easily be used wrongly.

I usually do what I can and use signals like her touching me as a barometer as to how well I am doing. If you think girls wont be attracted without kino than you need to work on your other skills.
 

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You guys wouldnt believe how much I hate it when I open up the frontpage and the first thing that catches my eye is one of these "Would Tom Cruise do this?" "Would Sylvester Stallone act like that?" "Would George Clooney **** that hoe?" lines
Yeah, that is annoying. Stupid too. Who cares what a celebrity does that gets him n.ookie? It's like asking for fighting tips from someone who fights with an Abram's tank. Not an advantage I have; advice irrelevant.
 

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NY Press: 50 Most Loathesome New Yorkers


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Lenny Kravitz
Musician

WHEN IN PUBLIC, neo-hippie glam rocker Lenny Kravitz—aka Moe Ron—has been known to employ a man to follow him around and carry the flowing tail of his royal cardigan sweater. According to Vice magazine's Jesse Pearson, who once witnessed this crime with his own eyes, Kravitz's sweater chauffeur carries the hanging garment at an appropriate distance, "like a bridesmaid." We knew Leonard Albert Kravitz was a lip-glossed prima donna who spent two hours a day touching himself in front of a full-length mirror—but a bridesmaid for a boutique cardigan? That's 51 percent loathsome, 49 percent humiliating—for all of us. Don't stop fVcking yourself, Lenny.





....I rest my case
 

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1. You can be secure all you want but it doesn't mean she's not sucking someone else's cack and then french kissing you.

2. There's a motto in certain organizations that makes sense:
"trust, but verify."

3. Kino or any other tactic in and of itself doesn't create an attraction that otherwise isn't there.

4. Y'all can hate on Lenny all you want, but he gets some mighty fine puzzy.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by alboh
NY Press: 50 Most Loathesome New Yorkers


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Lenny Kravitz
Musician

WHEN IN PUBLIC, neo-hippie glam rocker Lenny Kravitz—aka Moe Ron—has been known to employ a man to follow him around and carry the flowing tail of his royal cardigan sweater. According to Vice magazine's Jesse Pearson, who once witnessed this crime with his own eyes, Kravitz's sweater chauffeur carries the hanging garment at an appropriate distance, "like a bridesmaid." We knew Leonard Albert Kravitz was a lip-glossed prima donna who spent two hours a day touching himself in front of a full-length mirror—but a bridesmaid for a boutique cardigan? That's 51 percent loathsome, 49 percent humiliating—for all of us. Don't stop fVcking yourself, Lenny.





....I rest my case

That's bull**** gossip.
 

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You need to look at the context of how he ment talking to other guys. If she is out there letting guys hit on her and chatting them up then she is definately being disrespectful.

If it's just casual "hey howya doing" and she answers and holds a minor convo then it's cool.
 

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Originally posted by rgeere
Well, I believe he's black or atleast darker skinned for starters . But other than the fact that he has some talent as a musician and has lots of money, I don't think I would want to be him either.
What's that supposed to mean? Do people REALLY have to classify others by their cultural backround or skin tone? :rolleyes:
 

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Originally posted by Tyrone Biggums
What's that supposed to mean? Do people REALLY have to classify others by their cultural backround or skin tone? :rolleyes:
Those were meant to be made fun of, not classified by.
 
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