"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Would I get more interest and action if I get bigger?

Phizzeek

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I'm currently pretty scrawny I'm 20, 5'7 and around 125lbs. Would me gaining lean muscle and getting bigger get me more attraction, interest from girls? Would it make a difference with them?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Skyline

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Probably not.

It's more about finding the type of girl that is into you rather than trying to attract all types all together. Middle class girls that are a bit nerdy, slight countryside background, and that are slightly conservative are the types that I attract. They all share interest with the military as well.

I do horrible with Liberal and city girls.

Getting in shape won't hurt you but it won't exactly help you.

Oh yeah,

Tom Cruise
Dave Franco
XxxTentacion
Andy Milonakis

- Are all 5'7" and have outstanding accomplishments. Just find the type of girls you attract.
 

ubercat

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For s**** and giggles at your age I'd work out like a beast get ripped throw some shirtless selfies up online and prepare to become very scarred from the cougar action.

Then you will have had so much ***** you will be completely blase about the chicks your age. Perfect IDGAF attitude. Welcome to the DJ ranks.

At your age Friday night drunken MILF booty calls should be very achievable. And for Christ sakes don't go down the Shades of Grey route there r a lot of twisted chicks out there who are into pegging and worse. Just ask Bible Belt
 
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