Would AFC last in a long term relationship?...i have this girlfriend of one year...i'm starting to fall for her more and more...the thing is...when you love a girl so much you just cannot help but do everything to make her happy...you'll do anything to keep her...i'm starting to become an AFC in our relationship...does anyone know the real effective way of treating a long term relationship?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Would AFC last?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Are there any problems have u broke up before? is she holding out on you? remember to do your own things and dont be too needy i made that mistake and it cost me. If you act like a man there shouldnt be too much of a problem.
there are several LTR articles in the bible check them out.
- Do not see each other every day, all day
- Do things you want to do (hang out with friends, have your own time etc)
- Be a leader in the relationship
- Dont be too nice and trying to please her all the time.
If things are fine dont change into this nicer person who wants to cuddle all the time. Just be yourself if problems start to happen react.
again read the bible.
there are several LTR articles in the bible check them out.
- Do not see each other every day, all day
- Do things you want to do (hang out with friends, have your own time etc)
- Be a leader in the relationship
- Dont be too nice and trying to please her all the time.
If things are fine dont change into this nicer person who wants to cuddle all the time. Just be yourself if problems start to happen react.
again read the bible.
Call_Me_Daddy
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If you're rich, you can be an AFC for longer. Just work yourself to death to make the chick happy and try to buy her love. Just cover your ears and yell "LALALALALA!" really loud when she's about to tell you she's getting fed c0ck from another dude.vagrant said:does anyone know the real effective way of treating a long term relationship?
As long as you can pretend its all good, its ALL good.
Livinlifehard
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agreeModro said:Are there any problems have u broke up before? is she holding out on you? remember to do your own things and dont be too needy i made that mistake and it cost me. If you act like a man there shouldnt be too much of a problem.
there are several LTR articles in the bible check them out.
- Do not see each other every day, all day
- Do things you want to do (hang out with friends, have your own time etc)
- Be a leader in the relationship
- Dont be too nice and trying to please her all the time.
If things are fine dont change into this nicer person who wants to cuddle all the time. Just be yourself if problems start to happen react.
again read the bible.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Simple. Be the guy who attracted and got with her in the first place. Don't throw out the good qualities.vagrant said:Would AFC last in a long term relationship?...i have this girlfriend of one year...i'm starting to fall for her more and more...the thing is...when you love a girl so much you just cannot help but do everything to make her happy...you'll do anything to keep her...i'm starting to become an AFC in our relationship...does anyone know the real effective way of treating a long term relationship?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Very true!Modro said:Are there any problems have u broke up before? is she holding out on you? remember to do your own things and dont be too needy i made that mistake and it cost me. If you act like a man there shouldnt be too much of a problem.
there are several LTR articles in the bible check them out.
- Do not see each other every day, all day
- Do things you want to do (hang out with friends, have your own time etc)
- Be a leader in the relationship
- Dont be too nice and trying to please her all the time.
If things are fine dont change into this nicer person who wants to cuddle all the time. Just be yourself if problems start to happen react.
again read the bible.
I Want To Be a Playa
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vagrant said:Would AFC last in a long term relationship?...i have this girlfriend of one year...i'm starting to fall for her more and more...the thing is...when you love a girl so much you just cannot help but do everything to make her happy...you'll do anything to keep her...i'm starting to become an AFC in our relationship...does anyone know the real effective way of treating a long term relationship?
I've read plenty of threads on this website where AFC's are in LTRs, so the answer is yes. Is it a good idea? - never