"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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would a shy girl make a hot guy jump through hoops

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Would it make sense for a cute shy chick to play really hard to get with a guy she considers extremely hot? (ex phone tag, wont call back) If so, why? Is it a test to see how how determined a guy is to get her? I have read that its possible to get outgoing hot chicks to chase after you, but what about shy cute chicks who might be intimidated by a hot guy? Need some opinions.

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Don't try to affix logic to a woman's actions, it's a waste of time. Women interaction with men is not based on logic, it's based on emotion, drama, intrigue; all of the things that makes her heart skip a beat. Understand that women need more than a girlfriend's gossip to feed her need for drama.
 

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Let me be specific, would an insecure shy chick more readily play games unconsciously than a confident hot chick who isnt shy?
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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I don't know about how unconscious her actions would be but none the less, she would play those games to test you like most other women.
 

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i do belive the more games your put under it kinda shows she intrested otherwise why play games, she'd just either not answer the phone or be totally cold and distant.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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what if you've been dating a girl for awhile and she rarely calls? 3:1 ratio.. is that a game or grounds for NEXTing?
 

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Originally posted by Intheirheads
what if you've been dating a girl for awhile and she rarely calls? 3:1 ratio.. is that a game or grounds for NEXTing?
How long you've been dateing? Years? months?

there's obviously a reason why, and your probably calling her more and more cuz you feel like there's something happening..

could be a lot of things maybe before you NEXT her, find out why but don't be to direct about it. Just see what's up
 
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