"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Would a guy get offended or hold a grudge

Alex DeLarge

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Wouldn't bother me.

... Would a WOMAN?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DonJuanit0 said:
About why it happened, I have asked in the past in the very same forum, why can this happen! The answer shocked me as it was so real!

The reason why it may have happened is that you made her feel like a slut!

For example, if you tell a woman to come over to your place and have sex she will propably reject you even if she likes you, cause that way she looks like a slut,

BUT

If you tell a woman, to come over to your place, to show her your new aquarium (which is stupid actually cause you both know you're gonna have sex) she's gonna come! Why?


Because in her head, she'll think, "I'm not a slut", I went for the aquarium after all! She'll be ok with it no matter stupid it actually is!

So, maybe you did that! And she had to come to THAT point (completely naked) to understand that she is being a slut!

Right on Senior Don Juan! good answer
I totally agree, the man has to make the woman NOT feel like a slut the first time having sex. For example if while you both are naked for the first time and you start talking to her all these nasty things ie. I wanna "F" you and bend over, while ripping her clothes off, THIS IS NOT GOOD. Maybe if you have been in a relationship for 6 months to one year. But not the first time.

Talk instead of sweet talk, soft music even, make it very romantic,so she can feel good.

For a woman to give up her goodies, and feel good, the first time you got to be smooth about it. UNLESS SHE IS A SLUT. BUT MOST WOMEN ARE NOT SLUTS.

If you are already in a relationship then you can talk as dirty as you want to. But the first time NAH, dont do it. Its all about sweetness, ie. your'e beautiful etc. And save the "I wanna make you pregnant" talk thats tacky unless you sincerely mean it but its still overboard.
 
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