Would a girl kiss you and tell you to call her if she wasn't interested?

[Last_straw]

I'm just curious if I've blowing things out of proportion. Basically I've been out with this girl once, and while we were out she seemed interested but since then she seems to be ignoring me when I've tried to contact her. I know I should be out spinning plates, blah, blah, blah, but this same **** happened with every girl. All I want to know is if my beliefs are justified (that's she's actually not interested in me).

 

[Acq]

Dont contact her again
Move on

See what happens. When you have vanished she may suddenly show some interest as a test, ignore it.

 

[Robert28]

short and sweet answer=yes. happened to me a few times. it's a new thing acctually because few years ago if you were kissing her it meant she liked you and when SHE mentioned hanging out again, it was a good sign for date number 2. not anymore. a girl can kiss you, f**k you, tell you she wants to see you again, and none of it promises that youll ever see or hear from her again. why its like this now i couldn't tell you. there used to be fool proof ways to tell if a girl was really into you or not. not the case anymore sadly.

 

[Last_straw]

I wouldn't mind if she fvcked me an then ignored me since I'm after sex. But this whole **** is annoying.

 

[sodbuster]

She WAS interested during that 15 minutes.But then some OTHER bright and shiny [pretty,lets look at that-like a 2 year old] thing comes along. So the next 15 minutes-she's not. Watch a 2 year old child,see how much LOGIC they use and expect the same out of women

 

[Falcon25]

Listen,

Chicks change their minds with the winds...A kiss, a handjob, sex, promises, nothing means anything to them. It's all about how they feel at that MOMENT. 90 percent of the time it has nothing to do with you. They have no idea what they want, especially chicks under 26 yrs of age. Don't take it personal. Always use the rule of two (call twice) and still no answer, you move on.

 

[Ice882]

Have you tried over thinking it?

That usually works

 

[Last_straw]

Well I'm done. Try her again and nothing. Deleted her number and removed her from facebook (she added me). If she's not interested she won't care. And if she is this'll be a lesson to not play games.

 

[Poonani Maker]

Well I'm done. Try her again and nothing. Deleted her number and removed her from facebook (she added me). If she's not interested she won't care. And if she is this'll be a lesson to not play games.

I think you made a good move, but I've tried contacting the same girl here and there throughout the week. Some girls would rather text, some would rather email, some would rather talk over the phone. Find which one she prefers. For the past 2 months, I've made it my policy that if a girl doesn't respond to me all week from texts, email, or phone, I'll just wait till next week, or the week after, or the week after after, to try to contact her again. Here's the deal: At THIS point in time, she may not need you (maybe she's on the rag, who the fvck knows?), but there will be a time when she may need/want you. You strike at the right time, you get the fvck her. Maybe she gets dumped during that fourth week you tried contacting her. Just be patient, ALL THE WHILE spinning other P-lates of available women. You may NEVER get into contact with this one again. I've been trying to contact a girl I got a number from named Luana since middle of July all the way up until now. It's like she went on a loooooooong trip somewhere. All I ever get is her Cricket voicemail. But do you think that's stopping me from fvcking other women? Fvck no.

 

[TheAsianLoverReturns]

You should have escalated with her and f*cked her. You have to realize that before a woman has sex with you, you don't mean sh*t to her. Once you have sex with her, she has an emotional investment in you.

An attractive women has an army of guys after her. Competition is fierce. It's best to strike when the iron's hot.

Everyone makes mistakes. I've made a ton of them and got tons of rejections. I wouldn't have dated 111 women and f*cked a third of them if I gave up.

I read your other post and I almost vomited in my mouth. Then I realized I felt the same way at certain times in my life.

Never give in.

 

[The Mad Ghost]

I sense some DESPERATION here.

What do you mean you've been "out" with this girl once? Do you mean on a date or just a hang-out? Theres a difference between the two. Where did you go, what did you do? How long have you known her? How do you know her?

What type of kiss was it? A makeout or just a peck on the lips?

Provide above information - Sounds like she has other guys on her line and that "kiss" wasn't a makeout, but more of a Granny peck ont he lips cos shes just an affectionate person. Tell us!

 

[Last_straw]

We went out on a date (even she referred to it as a date). We've made out quite a few times between the night we met and our date. I'm done with this girl and dating in general, only reason I posted this is because u asked ghost.

 

[Maxtro]

How long have you know this girl? You made out with her the night you met her? How many times have you seen her?

 

[Falcon25]

You should have escalated with her and f*cked her. You have to realize that before a woman has sex with you, you don't mean sh*t to her. Once you have sex with her, she has an emotional investment in you.
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Never give in.

THIS IS VERY WRONG. There is no emotional investment with a woman having sex with you EARLY. If she has sex with you early, she will find it easier to walk away. You have to mind fuvk her before you **** her. You have to make her FEEL something, other than your divk. This takes time. TIME is the reason women become emotionally invested in you. Women have one night stands all the time, in fact, they say it themselves that "they would never date a guy they hooked up with at a club." If you want a woman to be invested in you, you have to give it time. You have to fuvk her mind before her body.

 

[Pandora]

Chicks change their minds with the winds...A kiss, a handjob, sex, promises, nothing means anything to them. It's all about how they feel at that MOMENT. 90 percent of the time it has nothing to do with you. They have no idea what they want, especially chicks under 26 yrs of age. Don't take it personal. Always use the rule of two (call twice) and still no answer, you move on.

Listen to this advice!! This is 100% correct and some of the best advice a guy can get about dating. I know its hard to believe, but women are truly this fickle. Esp younger ones. GET SUM FEMALE FRIENDS and talk to them about their love life and you will see firsthand how fickle they are.

There is no emotional investment with a woman having sex with you EARLY. If she has sex with you early, she will find it easier to walk away.

Correct again. Like some of the other posters said, sex doesn't mean shes head over heels for you. Not even close these days. Especially with college aged promiscuity. I just made a post about how even after u sex a chick, and after pillow talk with her she can still act flaky.

there used to be fool proof ways to tell if a girl was really into you or not. not the case anymore sadly.

Again many posters are saying the same thing. They are 100% right, making out and even having sex don't mean nothin to many chicks.

The point is that girls acting flaky happens to every guy and at all levels of dating. The more experience you get the more you will learn to not take it personal. In fact, you actually start to anticipate flaky behavior. It does not mean you did anything wrong. We need to get out of this mind set of blaming ourselves all the time. Check out this thread. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=175252

Eventually if you play the numbers (go on dates with like 15 chicks) you will find a good looking chick that wants to stay with you after sex and be your girl. BTW how old are you, because this stuff only comes with alot of dating experience. To be honest occasionally i fall into the trap of blaming myself, when flaky behavior happens. You just gotta remind urself that this is an inherent part of the game bro.

 

[TheAsianLoverReturns]

THIS IS VERY WRONG. There is no emotional investment with a woman having sex with you EARLY. If she has sex with you early, she will find it easier to walk away. You have to mind fuvk her before you **** her. You have to make her FEEL something, other than your divk. This takes time. TIME is the reason women become emotionally invested in you. Women have one night stands all the time, in fact, they say it themselves that "they would never date a guy they hooked up with at a club." If you want a woman to be invested in you, you have to give it time. You have to fuvk her mind before her body.

You have to think like a woman. She is letting you enter her, taking you inside her.

Yes freaks have one night stands, I have f*cked many freaks. Yet, even freaks have some level of attachment to the guys they f*ck. It's a one night stand because he didn't f*ck her well enough. F*ck her well, and she will want more and more.

As for mind f*cking a girl, that is best done after you have already had sex to her. When you f*ck her well in the bedroom and mind f*ck her, she do anything for her.

You don't mean sh*t to a woman until she's spread her legs for you.

 

[Lexington]

Girls have their own fvcked up reason for doing these things. There are so many different possibilities. Your situation isn't unique. Just recently, I made out with this girl big time. I slapped her on the ass before she got in her car and she insisted multiple times that I call her.

Well I called her and there was no answer. I sent a text and left it at that. Absolutely no response whatsoever. I wasn't going to sit around and sulk about it. I just deleted that broad's number and moved on to the next one. Don't worry about it.

Here are some of the many reasons:
-She might have felt like a slvt for kissing too early
-She might have other options on the table just like you (hopefully)
-A lot of the times, when girls are in a rough spot with their boyfriend/husband, they will "experiment" with other dudes but go back when the issue is resolved
-She might not have been all that attracted to you but just caved in the moment

Whatever the reason, it's irrelevant. It's her loss. Just move on. If she is going to behave this way, she isn't worth your time or effort. Kick this b*tch to the curb and forget her.

 

[Falcon25]

You have to think like a woman. She is letting you enter her, taking you inside her.

Yes freaks have one night stands, I have f*cked many freaks. Yet, even freaks have some level of attachment to the guys they f*ck. It's a one night stand because he didn't f*ck her well enough. F*ck her well, and she will want more and more.

As for mind f*cking a girl, that is best done after you have already had sex to her. When you f*ck her well in the bedroom and mind f*ck her, she do anything for her.

You don't mean sh*t to a woman until she's spread her legs for you.

Arghhhhh. I just wish that people were experienced and stop making these same mistakes. THIS IS WRONG! Sex means NOTHING to a woman if it doesn't have EMOTIONAL MEANING behind it. If you fuvk a girl eary, she will leave you easy. REMEMBER THAT GUYS. You have to make her FEEL something EMOTIONALLY. This guy has no idea what's going on. Fucvking her well has NOTHING to do with her staying with you. MANY guys can fuvk her good. It's the emotional mind fubk that gets her heart pounding for you. A woman will have an easier time justifying leaving you since she doesn't "love" you, and that you were just sex. It's the love she feels for a guy that gets to keep her, not the one who fuvks her early. Sex is the pinnacle and the peak of the relationship, if done early, she WILL WALK AWAY EASIER. IF YOU WANT TO KEEP HER, DON'T FUVK HER EARLY. Let her anticipate it. Let her yearn for it. Stay in control.

 

[teacha]

Arghhhhh. I just wish that people were experienced and stop making these same mistakes. THIS IS WRONG! Sex means NOTHING to a woman if it doesn't have EMOTIONAL MEANING behind it. If you fuvk a girl eary, she will leave you easy. REMEMBER THAT GUYS. You have to make her FEEL something EMOTIONALLY. This guy has no idea what's going on. Fucvking her well has NOTHING to do with her staying with you. MANY guys can fuvk her good. It's the emotional mind fubk that gets her heart pounding for you. A woman will have an easier time justifying leaving you since she doesn't "love" you, and that you were just sex. It's the love she feels for a guy that gets to keep her, not the one who fuvks her early. Sex is the pinnacle and the peak of the relationship, if done early, she WILL WALK AWAY EASIER. IF YOU WANT TO KEEP HER, DON'T FUVK HER EARLY. Let her anticipate it. Let her yearn for it. Stay in control.

You should have escalated with her and f*cked her. You have to realize that before a woman has sex with you, you don't mean sh*t to her. Once you have sex with her, she has an emotional investment in you.

An attractive women has an army of guys after her. Competition is fierce. It's best to strike when the iron's hot.

Never give in.

actually you guys are both correct, it works both ways depending on certain factors. Some girls become emotionally invested in guys after fcuking them once or twice and some don't.

 

[TheAsianLoverReturns]

actually you guys are both correct, it works both ways depending on certain factors. Some girls become emotionally invested in guys after fcuking them once or twice and some don't.

Excellent point. Every woman is different and requires a different approach.

Some women would think you are a p*ssy if you don't go for sex right away.

Other women would be offended if you go for sex right away.

Some women get attached to guys after a couple of f*cks.

Other women can f*ck a bunch of guys for money and feel nothing.