"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Would a Girl Date a Man for a nice Hotel?

Would a girl date a man for a nice hotel stay?

  • Yes - Gold diggers will often have sex with men just for a free hotel stay.

    Votes: 4 57.1%
  • No - I wish, if it were true I would offer nice hotels to every beauty I see.

    Votes: 3 42.9%

  • Total voters
    7

bigneil

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Some here have implied that my favorite model only spent the night with me for a free hotel stay (at a $400/night resort during a rain storm).

Before answering this: go up to the hottest girl you know and ask "If a guy who you didn't like offered to take you to a really nice hotel, would you have sex with him?" and see what they say.

I'd love the female members input here but they blocked me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dustmuffin

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Some here have implied that my favorite model only spent the night with me for a free hotel stay (at a $400/night resort during a rain storm).

Before answering this: go up to the hottest girl you know and ask "If a guy who you didn't like offered to take you to a really nice hotel, would you have sex with him?" and see what they say.

I'd love the female members input here but they blocked me.
Why did the girls block you?
 

Alvafe

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there is woman who would spend the night for a car ride so, anything is possible,

also please asking for a girl what she would do, chances are she would lie, she can hate the dude but if he can push her buttons the right way she will just have a hate sex with him
 

bigneil

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Please tell me what percentage of women will do this, not that SOME percentile will.

But if a girl has sex for the cost of the hotel, that is a good deal.


See Housewives. Has SS fallen so far that housewives are now considered ho's?

I often feel as though posters should have to publish how many women they have bedded next to their username.

Unless you are a fat girl or an underemployed man, in which case you'll b!tch like a mother f*cker.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Prove it. If you ask 10 girls (rated 99% on Photofeeler) and 3 agree, I'll pay for the hotel cost for the hottest girl if you post photos of you and her having sex.
You're a strange guy Neil.
 

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Damn Big Neil. You really have me reading every thread you post. Im trying to find one tht doesn't mention tht stupid woman rater site
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Have you not heard of seeking arrangements?

There's plenty of girls on there that will sleep with men for money, iphones, shoes, trips away etc etc etc.

Told the story already of a former plate of mine who slept with a old dude on there for a night at a spa, dinner and a ride on a cable car.

She probably told him she loved him but reality was her ego had recently been damaged and she was just after some validation.

So the answer quite simply, is yes.
 

bigneil

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Have you not heard of seeking arrangements?

There's plenty of girls on there that will sleep with men for money, iphones, shoes, trips away etc etc etc.
I didn't say spa treatment.

Women absolutely do not sleep with men for the cost of the hotel alone.

I'd like one member to prove me wrong. I already offered to reimburse hotel costs so it's free sex if you can do it.

I knew this poll would be biased but still posted it.

Damn Big Neil. You really have me reading every thread you post. Im trying to find one tht doesn't mention tht stupid woman rater site
And likewise we're waiting for one post from you WITH a photo.
 
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