"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Would a girl be DTF if "she loves Jesus"?

ElGuapo

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For those of you who don't know, DTF = down to fvck.

Obviously, it's my job to find out. But do the odds seem stacked against me he here? I met a girl at a party last night and hit it off with her. I got her number and today she invited me to go to the beach with her and her friends.

Anyway, I just looked at her Facebook profile and under religious views it says "I love Jesus." Apparently, her favorite book is the Bible and several Christian novels.

I'm not interested in a relationship with this girl. I just wanna do her. But being Christian and all, she might not be down with that kinda thing.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MisterMcGee

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Right, because nobody else anybody has fvcked has ever been a Christian or member of other religions. EVERYONE is an athiest, obviously.
/sarcasm
 

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Tread very carefully here. If you coerce her into doing something that she believes is fundamentally wrong, you will leave her with serious internal conflicts. I suggest you cut this one loose.
 

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Depending on what kind of Christian she is, she may very well not respect you for having views different from yours. But I suppose that is of little consequence if you're only interested in sleeping with her.

Don't worry about the no extramarital sex thing. If she is holier than thou you can be sure that she has enough double standards to make up for it.

Atom Smasher said:
Tread very carefully here. If you coerce her into doing something that she believes is fundamentally wrong, you will leave her with serious internal conflicts. I suggest you cut this one loose.
I don't buy that religious people are so fragile.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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