"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Would a DJ ever get back with an ex?

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Guitar_Whizz

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Hey guys. I have a scenario here. I broke up with my girlfriend in march this year, due to various reasons. She was 8 years younger than me, which led a lot of her friends to disapprove of me and her. In the end I ended the relationship as my head was messed up at all the texts and phone calls I got from her friends, some of them even pretending to her her and trying to deliberately break us up.

However, I had regrets and a few weeks ago I e-mailed her explaining what happened. To my surprise she emailed back saying she still loves me etc. Since then we've been emailing constantly, and getting very flirty and so on. I've busted on her using ****y + funny, and we've talked about sex and our fantasies a lot. I have established myself as the prize and I feel she has to win me over now. I also feel we've cleared the air on our breakup.

The question I have is under what circumstances would any of you get back with an ex? (If ever?). I need advice, as I kinda want to get back with her, yet I know I could just as easily find another girl, so I'm confused.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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A lot of people say and ex is an ex for a reason...

But, if this chick has your heart and you have hers, I say go for it.

The only thing I wory about is, if the opinions of others were enough to break you two up before, what other bs are you willing to leave this girl for.

If everyone's opinions get to you that much, I see a turbulent relationship ahead for the two of you.

I think YOU and HER, ONLY, should sit back and analyze the situation and figure if you two and your love or like is powerful enough to overcome the bullsyt...
 
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No

No matter how many times you read a book, it still has the same ending.
 
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I_Only_Live_Once

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There's 2 things you don't go back on: old jobs and old gfs lol
 
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WORKEROUTER

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I love all the one liners in here!

But seriously man, this girl sounds immature as hell. Why waste your time? Keep her on the side as a booty call instead.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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There are certain RARE exceptions when you get with an exgf. But in this case, you need to keep her NEXT'D!! How stupid is that shiat!! They got you to break up with her because they felt you were too old, not her type, etc!! That shiat's going to start up all over again in due time and if it doesn't, they'll find something else to ridcule you about.


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