johnnyhero79
Don Juan
well would a girl say yes to 600 bucks just for a ten min hug?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Then again, some women have deep sexual desires to become prostitutes but don't really want to become prostitutes.Originally posted by Wyldfire
Your post reminds me of something my ex husband tried to pull back when I was married to him. After 5 years of him abusing me on an almost daily basis he just repulsed me. I cringed if he even got into bed with me. He made my skin crawl. At that point I wouldn't let him touch me.
He once tried to convince me to let him do something to me for $500. We were married at the time and I said "Hell, no."
Most women would be highly offended if you treated them like a prostitute. If anyone did that to me I can't say for sure I wouldn't punch them in the mouth. I'm not a violent person, either.
So, I'd say no...you shouldn't try that.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Originally posted by johnnyhero79
If i happen to see a chick that i like can you get them do something to you if you gave them 600 easy bucks on the spot.
Originally posted by johnnyhero79
What if i ask a girl to let me hug her for 5 mins?
Originally posted by johnnyhero79
well would a girl say yes to 600 bucks just for a ten min hug?
Dude, I'll hug you for $600.Originally posted by johnnyhero79
What if i ask a girl to let me hug her for 5 mins?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
that time has passed now. i think ,Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
For my next vacation I'm going to Norway. I'll bring 50 mobile cards.