"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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tryst type

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Current gf moving in a week. We've been together for a month. Practically left her ex of two years for me.

Her ex had already came by to drop off her belongings last week and what I had thought they also said their final goodbyes.

Come to find out she tells me they're supposed to hang out one last time before she leaves my response "that's cool, I'm jealous... He seems really fun that's not fair you get his time" obviously in a sarcastic throw away comment tonality. I immedietly changed subject.

Now I'm thinkin why they even need to see each other one last night? Am I over analyzing in this situation? How would I voice my opinion without seeming insecure etc?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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CORVETTE06

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that is TOTAL bullsh!t.

that should not happen. your girlfriend should NOT be hanging out ALONE with her XBF... a guy she had FEELINGS for and FVCKED.

this is a big no no. if she does it, then let her go. if u tell her not to she will prob do it anyway on the downlow.

if u tell her no she will make it like ur overprotective, when ur NOT. she shouldnt even WANT to see him or even SUGGEST it to u. she is fvcked up in the head man.
 

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Is your gf moving or 'moving in'?

I think her seeing him when he dropped the stuff off was enough, anything more is just plain disrepectful to you. Its not a good sign.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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