worst version Nice guy into REAL MAN in a marriage

[coldfusion]

Target/Goal= From" worst version Nice guy" into real man/DJ in a Marriage

hello all!
I have a 10 years relationship - and we live 7 years together!

My past:
the worst version of a mister Nice guy I would even say I was a sissy

My present:
I a search to become a real man/male DJ in my relation,my social life and professional life.

Currently readings:
this forum
No More Mr Nice Guy and The Book Of Pook

The book of pook is mindblowing a real eye opener.


I wish there was a Book of Pook for men in a LTR/married men...
So Pook - start writing please

current situation: boring, routine life: work/household,
love/sexlife are low - to low and that really need to change!

our son is great and its the most beautiful thing,
the best thing that happened to me/us

But I want passion/love/ sex/ enjoy life fully
I want that my wife is attracted to me in every way and every day

So I have started this personal project to change and become a real man/ DJ for everybody but in the first place for myself.
I know this will be a project that will never end. this decision is for the rest of my life.

I took the first step: I need to work on my own, see my weaknesses and work on it.

But what is the next step?, where do I start? what should I certainly read!
please help me!
thanks

 

[fredhib]

I'm also looking for a Book of Pook on LTR.

Here's something:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=56076

 

[coldfusion]

thanks for the link!

I have already taken some actions (are they any good?)
I work on these every day.. not easy - They should be natural rules/in my genes
but they aren't (not yet)

my dad is also a real Mr nice guy...

- Take care of myself, my appearance
- a passion in life / a goal which I dedicates myself!
- I'm the price to win - mentality (also in my relationship)
- I don't try to understand women anymore because in the past I always ended up as the "best friend (to talk with!)" and not love / passion / sex partner.

 

[Epimanes]

Check out some of my previous threads here. I been with my wife for almost 20 years. So suave helps some but www.marriagebuilders.com saved my marriage from divorce. Both sites have great tools for different reasons. Check it out and my threads I started here in married man section. Marriagebuilders is win win when done properly for both spouses and it works. I'm proof.

Epi

 

[coldfusion]

Thanks Epimanes! I will search and read...

 

[JoeMarron]

This guy caters to married man game

http://marriedmansexlife.com/blog/

That blog and his book will be pretty much all you need. The principles of the game are universal, everyone just likes to put their own unique spin on it.