BuckwildNYC
Senior Don Juan
And people wonder how men become serial killers ahaha
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Worst Turn down Ever
- Thread starter Chosen1
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Chosen1
Master Don Juan
You think I'm going to become a serial killer or some stupid b!tch who can't even walk and chew bubble gum at the same time???? you're right.BuckwildNYC said:
I just said: "Hey, I have a great gig. I'm going out for coffee next Saturday (at Noon) to celebrate. Want to join me?"Chosen1 said:
This was a girl who joined me in a paddleboat, sat close to me so I could show her a video I was working on, and sat with me at lunches and dinners. I had been very proud for being a manly guy. I hadn't been overly kind, I hadn't shown any wuss behavior... and I thought I had done pretty well. I had even left her alone when normally, in my chumpier days, I would have walked her to lunch. And she seemed receptive. What turned her into uberb*tch, I'll never know.
Yeah, I think the girls are really cool, and then I find what total weirdos they usually are.
I've actually gotten a lot of nasty responses... at first, (when I was younger and more chumpy), I'd be so shocked, I just wouldn't say anything to really defend myself. "Well, if that's the way you feel about it..."
Now I'm a lot more likely to say something back. Not curse her out, but call her on being rude. Once in a while, though, I still get too shocked to say something back (Ugh, that one was about 2 years ago, and a rare lapse back into being too kind to say anything back). I hope that I can be quick more often to think of a great thing to say.
I was talking to my friends, she comes to me and starts flirting and hitting on me... I show her some attention, she calls me a really cool guy, asks for my #, but never calls me...
At that point I was just "WTF, you were the one approaching me, dumb b*tch!"
At that point I was just "WTF, you were the one approaching me, dumb b*tch!"
I met this hottie at some kind of presentation. Didn't really talk to her that day. Somehow I got her number (lol) and decided to call her. I was so nervous I couldn't dial the number for like 2 hours 
Then when I finally call her and she picks up I asked her out and she said something like "You're that skinny guy, right? You don't work out huh? I like guys who work out"
Lol, I miss my AFC days Still, this was my first cold call approach and I am proud I made the move.
Then when I finally call her and she picks up I asked her out and she said something like "You're that skinny guy, right? You don't work out huh? I like guys who work out"Lol, I miss my AFC days
Still, this was my first cold call approach and I am proud I made the move."So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Ignition101
New Member
Heres a funny one, happend to one of my friends:
- What's ur number?
- It's 956-444GET IT you prick!
hhahahaha
- What's ur number?
- It's 956-444GET IT you prick!
hhahahaha
All the put downs and rejections just fade after a while.
Recent one was a girl telling me to pi** off when i cracked onto her mate.
But i tend to forget about them pritty fast, also you know when she is about to blow you out, there are subtle signals.
I am a firm believer the guys who get blown out the worst are the most persistant and dont know when to move on. They assume its something to do with there ego, even though there are many reasons she may not be intrested, many indeed.
Not even worth worrying about tbh, plenty more where they came from.
MMM worst, probably the worst was my mate who has slept with well over 300+ women who was a total genius when it came to pulling girls (he slpet with 4 in one night) He was shot down virtually all the time, contsantly, always with out fail every night, but he always pulled in the end.
He has had chips thrown at him, been called some random put down names, been told by girls they are waiting for something better to come along, nothing ever phased him and this was is true success.
If i wanted to relfect on put downs i could probably fill this forum with his put downs alone, mine i cant recall, i forget about them and talking to my mate, he never remembers his put downs either.
Recent one was a girl telling me to pi** off when i cracked onto her mate.
But i tend to forget about them pritty fast, also you know when she is about to blow you out, there are subtle signals.
I am a firm believer the guys who get blown out the worst are the most persistant and dont know when to move on. They assume its something to do with there ego, even though there are many reasons she may not be intrested, many indeed.
Not even worth worrying about tbh, plenty more where they came from.
MMM worst, probably the worst was my mate who has slept with well over 300+ women who was a total genius when it came to pulling girls (he slpet with 4 in one night
) He was shot down virtually all the time, contsantly, always with out fail every night, but he always pulled in the end.He has had chips thrown at him, been called some random put down names, been told by girls they are waiting for something better to come along, nothing ever phased him and this was is true success.
If i wanted to relfect on put downs i could probably fill this forum with his put downs alone, mine i cant recall, i forget about them and talking to my mate, he never remembers his put downs either.