"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Worst Tease ever

illmatic1005

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when ever my gf are alone..we sometimes get sexual. For instance, she will jump on top of me(clothes on) and we will start making out). She'll kiss my
d!ck (thru the pants) and go backt o kissing me..she will also rub her hands on my bare stomach . Some other stuff too

Many times, she even sticks her hand down my pants and grabs my d!ck. She'll do that one or 2 times but after the 2nd time will say "not today tho"

then when she does that i get soo mad because u cant jsut do all that stuff to me and expect me not to want at least something..

i try to play it cool and whatever she says 'whats wrong?..awww u wanted a bj or hj but i wouldnt give it to u?''

i just laugh it off becaue if i say yes she wills say "thats all u want" and if i say no she'll say ''why im not good enough?'

what the hell do i do?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DoctorLW

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Sounds like she enjoys that feeling of power. That's hardcore bs and, personally, I would dump her on the spot.
 

NSUballer

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Heres a tip. Pretend like she doesnt exist for a few days. Talk to other girls. Then when you see her again, act aloof. If she tries to kiss you or anything just dont be into it. That should make her do one of two things. Give it up or do what I told you to do.
 

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....hmm sounds like a good idea, dont spend time with her for a while...I mean talk to her since she is your gf but dont get all lovey dovey like you have been. Now maybe after a week when she tries to kiss you....dont let her,then when she gets all pouty and mad just say "Awww you wanted a kiss but I wouldnt give it to you, aww...that's all you want"
Just change positions....c=ckteases shouldn't waste your time like this.
 

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why r u letting her take control over you sexually she knows how to arouse u and shes not going to give in. Unless u be the man and show her who has the physical dominance, that she doesn't make the choices when to fcuk only u do. Pleasure her don't let her hands come near your ****, in time she'll be begging for it. She just feels she has power over you by teasing you, u don't fight fire with fire n tease her back. You put her on her back , u get on top, and do what you gotta do to arouse her enough to fcuk her. Girls do this when i think the guy is lacking in foreplay. Her hands are all over you! what are your hands doing??? they should be all over her.....
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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In Motion

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j0n024 said:
Now maybe after a week when she tries to kiss you....dont let her,then when she gets all pouty and mad just say "Awww you wanted a kiss but I wouldnt give it to you, aww...that's all you want"
Just change positions....c=ckteases shouldn't waste your time like this.
^ Do this, great advise, but you have to have the balls for it.
 

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i do do that sometimes. Sometimes i actually do not kiss her or move her hand away or say 'nuh uh uhhh'

then she gets all pouty and says 'Dont wanna kiss me? fine''


or "y dont u wanna kiss me. do u still like me?''

or something along those lines but the most common one is.."dont wanna kiss/touch me, fine'' and she wont do anything in return and turn her back on me.
 

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illmatic1005 said:
i just laugh it off becaue if i say yes she wills say "thats all u want" and if i say no she'll say ''why im not good enough?'

what the hell do i do?

thats called frame control

you are answering her questions

a simple way that i handle frame control is to not speak unless it is in the form of a question...for example


hb: thats all you want?

incorrect: saying yes or no and then being forced to justify that answer:down:

correct: who's grabbing whos d1ck?

then act dominant by flipping her on her back and saying something like...

you are such a pervert all you want is for me to touch you, tease you and pin you to the floor

then pretened like you are gonna kiss her but as soon as your lips touch turn your head sideways...to increase the tension and tease her

then bust on her and say: look at that big sh1t eating grin...you just love this attention dont you?

dont dump her or ignore her cause she will ditch your lame azz...its called foreplay...tease her, qualify her, arouse her, dominate her:up:
 

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Only bad part I see about that...is the whole "Rape," thing...I mean we got fvked up women in this world so be careful whatever you do.
 
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