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Don Juan
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I just got done reading the thread "" The Worst Kind of girls" I am in total shock right now ! I have been coming here for a couple years just reading. I just need to tell my apparently AFC story and somebody can verify that I was infact played.
I met a married woman at my work place. I would talk to her and eat with her. I just assumed that we were friends. One day she tells me while we was talking about sex that she would have sex with me if she was not married. Then all of a sudden I started to like her. She start flirting with me.
She matches the description of the worst kind of girls thread as in she mentioned once that her best friend in High School was a guy.She only had a couple female friends however I was her only male friend.
So reading the bible and threads here I thought that she may be playing me. I even would come out and biitch at her and accuse her of playing me and she would say that she is not that mean to do that to me. So the more I read I thought Oh well she kinoed me oh she laughed at my comments she must really like me. Well after reading that thread I see how girls like that may do those things anyway. So how can you tell if it is real or one of those kind of girls? She would act jealous when I would talk to another girl and I always thought that a girl playing you would not care if you talked to other girls because they really don't like you anyway. So then attention hooo crossed my mind and I read that attention hooo's seek it from many men and I was the only one who she came around.
So I have major trust issues with people and I hate and am nasty to 99 percent of the people that I know because I have been hurt by so many people family included. So she even told me that when she started that somebody said to her that I am mean to people and she thought it was nice that I liked her and would talk to her. So why in the heck does she like it that i would talk to her. My male friend even told me that when somebody doesn't like people that it makes him want to be friends with them. I have read here about ignoring hot woman and not showing them all the attention like all the other guys are doing and you will stand out. is that like this? A friend of mine met a woman at work all the guys would hit on her and everything and he didn't. So she and him dated and she told him that she could not stand the fact that he just ignored her.
So basiclly she tells me it is ok to make a move. If we ever are alone of course I say "you're full of shiat we are never alone" then I notice when we would ride the elevator she would stand in the corner far from me. So we are at the park and I try to kiss her and she stops me and gives me the old I thought about it more and I can;t do that I have alot to lose etc etc. I tell her she is full of it and she wants to talk the talk but not walk the walk. So she says "why don;t you come over tonight" I think wtf does she want me to come over for? I did go over and nothing happened so I don't get why she shoots me down then asks me to come over?
Now the worst part that confuses the heck out of me is. I will not go into how it was said but it was hinted around that I have to be in college and when I SAID that I was in college she starts talking to me again. Also her friend says to me once when I was talking about getting a job somewhere "you can't raise a family on that money" I have no family! what is she talking about?
So everybody here talks about attention Ho's and I am so confused but I may be an attention Hooooo myself. I could careless about her until she tells me that she would have sex with me. Then I think oh I like her. Of course I seen her pic before I seen her in person and I thought oh she is hot. But once I saw her in person I thought Oh No she is short and chubby never mind. But after the sex comment I was all into her. Even to this day I now check out short chubby chicks I don't know how that happened??? So I want to be friends after I said that I don't want to be just friends. I think Why do I want to be friends with her at all. It is not like we could go places and hang out. I then realize that I just want to be around her so she could make me feel good about myself!!!! I am really confused what is wrong with me and if I really liked her or not.
So I thought and may still think that I was a back up plan for her when her marriage failed Which I always knew and I think she knew to. It was one of those you got me pregnant so lets get married for the kid. Or she is One of those "worst kind of girls" u guys please tell me which one.
I have one more thing that she would do that I want to know why. Several times she would tell me "he likes you" she likes you" "my daughter likes you" What was the point behind this?
Was that a good idea or not when I would just come and call her on her games or when I thought she was playing games? " you're playing me"
Thanks guys I may of just learned my most valuable lesson here!
I met a married woman at my work place. I would talk to her and eat with her. I just assumed that we were friends. One day she tells me while we was talking about sex that she would have sex with me if she was not married. Then all of a sudden I started to like her. She start flirting with me.
She matches the description of the worst kind of girls thread as in she mentioned once that her best friend in High School was a guy.She only had a couple female friends however I was her only male friend.
So reading the bible and threads here I thought that she may be playing me. I even would come out and biitch at her and accuse her of playing me and she would say that she is not that mean to do that to me. So the more I read I thought Oh well she kinoed me oh she laughed at my comments she must really like me. Well after reading that thread I see how girls like that may do those things anyway. So how can you tell if it is real or one of those kind of girls? She would act jealous when I would talk to another girl and I always thought that a girl playing you would not care if you talked to other girls because they really don't like you anyway. So then attention hooo crossed my mind and I read that attention hooo's seek it from many men and I was the only one who she came around.
So I have major trust issues with people and I hate and am nasty to 99 percent of the people that I know because I have been hurt by so many people family included. So she even told me that when she started that somebody said to her that I am mean to people and she thought it was nice that I liked her and would talk to her. So why in the heck does she like it that i would talk to her. My male friend even told me that when somebody doesn't like people that it makes him want to be friends with them. I have read here about ignoring hot woman and not showing them all the attention like all the other guys are doing and you will stand out. is that like this? A friend of mine met a woman at work all the guys would hit on her and everything and he didn't. So she and him dated and she told him that she could not stand the fact that he just ignored her.
So basiclly she tells me it is ok to make a move. If we ever are alone of course I say "you're full of shiat we are never alone" then I notice when we would ride the elevator she would stand in the corner far from me. So we are at the park and I try to kiss her and she stops me and gives me the old I thought about it more and I can;t do that I have alot to lose etc etc. I tell her she is full of it and she wants to talk the talk but not walk the walk. So she says "why don;t you come over tonight" I think wtf does she want me to come over for? I did go over and nothing happened so I don't get why she shoots me down then asks me to come over?
Now the worst part that confuses the heck out of me is. I will not go into how it was said but it was hinted around that I have to be in college and when I SAID that I was in college she starts talking to me again. Also her friend says to me once when I was talking about getting a job somewhere "you can't raise a family on that money" I have no family! what is she talking about?
So everybody here talks about attention Ho's and I am so confused but I may be an attention Hooooo myself. I could careless about her until she tells me that she would have sex with me. Then I think oh I like her. Of course I seen her pic before I seen her in person and I thought oh she is hot. But once I saw her in person I thought Oh No she is short and chubby never mind. But after the sex comment I was all into her. Even to this day I now check out short chubby chicks I don't know how that happened??? So I want to be friends after I said that I don't want to be just friends. I think Why do I want to be friends with her at all. It is not like we could go places and hang out. I then realize that I just want to be around her so she could make me feel good about myself!!!! I am really confused what is wrong with me and if I really liked her or not.
So I thought and may still think that I was a back up plan for her when her marriage failed Which I always knew and I think she knew to. It was one of those you got me pregnant so lets get married for the kid. Or she is One of those "worst kind of girls" u guys please tell me which one.
I have one more thing that she would do that I want to know why. Several times she would tell me "he likes you" she likes you" "my daughter likes you" What was the point behind this?
Was that a good idea or not when I would just come and call her on her games or when I thought she was playing games? " you're playing me"
Thanks guys I may of just learned my most valuable lesson here!
and it really pisses me off so try to prevent that. And I believe that her going through a divorce can change things big time but you should back off for a while. Thats about all I can tell you from my expirience.