Worst..i Need Serious Advice!!!

[illmatic1005]

ok..recently me and a girl started dating..the only thing tho was that she was my best friends sister and he gets mad if anyone even flirts with her.....

i dont kno why but we decided we would try to hide it from him but his sister (my gf) told her brother's friend that we were dating but not to tell him, which he did anyway...

me and his sister told him it wasnt true and kept denying anything and he calmed down a little but he is still a little unsure about who to believe (his sister and me, or one of his other good friends)

TO ADD TO THE PROBLEM..i was getting intimate with another girl (my gf's brothers friend) and my gf would probably find out and tell her brother everything we did together ...

if i get caught i would lose my whole circle of friends, which would be the worst!!

PLEASE I NEED ADVICE other than 'you shouldnt have done that to your best friend'' or ''just tell ur gf's brother'' (because he wont sympathize guaranteed)

PLEASE!!

 

[MooseGod]

I suggest you drink. Heavily.

 

[jmeh13]

haha do the above and....

first off its a girl and I
But bro you really need to ask yourself some questions like could you really live with out this girl. I mean is she really worth loosing a best friend over. i don't know maybe im wrong but i have often found girls pretty easily but best friends that you can trust are hard to come by. No matter what he will find out one way or another.

 

[illmatic1005]

no this girl is not worth it..but she is like crazy for me or whatever and if i tell her we just cant do it ..shell tell her bro everything!

 

[Tenzen]

get approval from her bro man. Be straight up with him, he knows ur a good guy he was ur best friend or w/e. Be like dude, ur sister likes me, you know i'm a good guy, do me this one favor...... If he refuses fcuk him hes not ur best friend or ever was. Cut contact with him, and just like a girl he'll prolly break eventually and talk to u about it. Then u can work things out because i'm sure he won't want to lose u as a friend either.

 

[illmatic1005]

i dont kno....last year another kid was in the same position as me...they werer realllly gooood friends..but now the borther hates the kid and wants to kill him...even a year later! and they never talk but always use to hang out and have fun and stuff

 

[sexybeast]

This is all your own doing... you should have been straight up with the bro. If I was the bro and found out you'd better be on your toes son.

Advice: Learn from it...

 

[sav]

let me tell you,

in no uncertain terms should you date this girl, and in no uncertain terms should youy have a "heart to heart" conversation with ur friend..

if one of my friends started dating my sister i'd castrate him.. even if it was my best friend... tell her you two should see other people and u would prefer that she not tell her brother anything as you will just deny it... make it clear to her that relationships cant be coerced...

good luck, ur in a mess.

 

[illmatic1005]

we just agreed that we wont tell anyone and will sneak the whole thing....

she kept promising she wouldnt tell him or anyone no matter what i did..even if i got her soo mad...

HOPEFULLY IT WORKS OUT!!!