"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Worst day of RichardTheFrog's life...

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Let me guess, it's the backpage being siezed by the FBI thing? I'm bummed about that too
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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R.U.G.

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Why do you need to pay for sex? Don't you have that Italian charm? Use the Lambo as a business only car, and claim a deduction. LOL. IANAL or IAMNAA, so check with them on that.
 

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I went on backpage and it was closed. Then I freaked out and looked at leolist and listcrawler, both were still up, and started jerking off to escort pics there and broke my renewed momentum of being celibate. I knew about listcrawler from before, then leolist I found out browsing through an escort review board. I thought I quit this "escort-porn" thing. Yeah, they should close these sites up, so people like me can move-on from this porn addiction problem and stop fapping. I am worried I'm feeling emotionally connected to these escort photos and start reacting to them being taken off the internet. It's totally insane.

At least my mobile backpage app won't work and won't be using it to check out local escorts while I'm on the road. The last time I was actually seriously thinking of seeing one of them. Then I remember, this escort had been posting her ads since a long time ago, how many men has she probably seen and her photos are probably air-brushed.

I hope they close off all the sites so I'll stop watching porn on the internet by going on these escort sites. Most people here think fapping and watching porn is not a good thing. I mean won't most recovering porn fappers want porn to be closed down to remove the temptation?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You can fvck a b!tch without being in a relationship.
She is your b1tch when she is with you, not a b1tch and you could do whatever you want with her and nobody can do anything about that. It's thrilling to have that much control over an lady that's exposed and opening her self up like that. But again, that's what I thought before the demonic attacks the next day. You see, she was not my b1tch after all, I was the b1tch of the devils living inside of her and putting her there in the first place and I was scammed. You say it last a little while. No these devils play for keeps, felt like they wanted to kill me but God protected me. They tried to make me growl and vomit but I fought them back and eventually my mother and I got rid of them, through the power of Jesus Christ, and I have been on my right mind since. Since that experience, I don't see prostitutes the same way again, since there are monsters that are governing their lives. Dark realms that you don't want to be exposed to for sanity sake. Best to just stay away from all of them, or watch a horror movie if so inclined to avoid living one in real life by dealing with them.

Fortunately, for RichardtheFrog, after dealing with 200 escorts (i.e. or so he claims) he never got oppressed/possessed like I did. I just dealt with two and got burned by the second one.
 

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It must be a really depressing world to be a man in when women are just p*ssies to stick your kn*b in and literally nothing else.

Marie Curie? Beyonce? Sylvia Plath? Uma Thurman? These aren't all interesting and successful human beings, they're just d*ck holes you can buy for enough cash, right?

I get the impression Richard would leave a house full of young women to burn to death if they wouldn't f*ck him for saving them. Because if they're not going to get on his d*ck, why do they even exist?

It's like looking at the world through the eyes of an alien that's never interacted with humans before. It's seen people putting bits of their anatomy in each other but doesn't understand any other kind of interaction.

If I've learned anything from these threads, it's that using prostitutes twists you into a borderline sociopath that sees women 100% as sub-human pleasure commodities. I can almost imagine you bidding on women at a Russian Mafiya sex slave auction (please for the love of God don't get any ideas).
 

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It must be a really depressing world to be a man in when women are just p*ssies to stick your kn*b in and literally nothing else.
I do not see it that way.

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Marie Curie? Beyonce? Sylvia Plath? Uma Thurman? These aren't all interesting and successful human beings, they're just d*ck holes you can buy for enough cash, right?
They are singers right? What is your point? Music is art.

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I get the impression Richard would leave a house full of young women to burn to death if they wouldn't f*ck him for saving them. Because if they're not going to get on his d*ck, why do they even exist?
That would be very demonic.

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It's like looking at the world through the eyes of an alien that's never interacted with humans before. It's seen people putting bits of their anatomy in each other but doesn't understand any other kind of interaction.
Aliens are demons too pretending to be aliens. It's part of the deception. When millions of people go missing, they are going to blame it on mass abductions, when in reality it was the Rapture. Again, what you describe sounds demonic. This is why I got attacked on the second.

MoreThanSmooth said:
If I've learned anything from these threads, it's that using prostitutes twists you into a borderline sociopath that sees women 100% as sub-human pleasure commodities. I can almost imagine you bidding on women at a Russian Mafiya sex slave auction (please for the love of God don't get any ideas).
It is not the prostitutes, it's the evil mastermind behind them. It is a spiritual warfare. No women can never be sub-human pleasure commodities. They are holy vessels of God who are made in the image of God and glorify God their creator. Jesus, was born from the virgin Mary. There are many notable women in the Bible, some like Rahab were former prostitutes (Joshua 6:25-27), but God saved her and put them as part of the Messiah's bloodline. The prophet Hosea married a prostitute to show how unfaithful Israel was as a nation (Hosea). The redemption of everyone came from the seed of a woman (Gen 3:15). If Jesus came to save sinners, including prostitues, then he can save *****mongers too. Nobody is beyond salvation. No, RichardtheFrog needs prayer that he would find Jesus and give his life to him.
 

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She is your b1tch when she is with you, not a b1tch and you could do whatever you want with her and nobody can do anything about that. It's thrilling to have that much control over an lady that's exposed and opening her self up like that. But again, that's what I thought before the demonic attacks the next day. You see, she was not my b1tch after all, I was the b1tch of the devils living inside of her and putting her there in the first place and I was scammed. You say it last a little while. No these devils play for keeps, felt like they wanted to kill me but God protected me. They tried to make me growl and vomit but I fought them back and eventually my mother and I got rid of them, through the power of Jesus Christ, and I have been on my right mind since. Since that experience, I don't see prostitutes the same way again, since there are monsters that are governing their lives. Dark realms that you don't want to be exposed to for sanity sake. Best to just stay away from all of them, or watch a horror movie if so inclined to avoid living one in real life by dealing with them.

Fortunately, for RichardtheFrog, after dealing with 200 escorts (i.e. or so he claims) he never got oppressed/possessed like I did. I just dealt with two and got burned by the second one.
Dude are you on something or have some sort of mental disorder?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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They are singers right? What is your point? Music is art.
Scientist, singer, poet, actress. My point is that women are humans just like men are.

Men are not just mindless walking d*cks that exist only for women to use as vibrators. And I also don't believe women are just walking pusses for us to thrust into only.

Not that there's anything wrong with sex (I wouldn't be here if I thought there was!) but I think it's grossly unhealthy to have the attitude that women are just pleasure machines and not worthy of any kind of human compassion or care.

And that's the attitude Richard often gets across to me with his "I've banged hundreds of prostitutes, I'm the MAN, but I don't know how to hold a basic conversation with a normal woman."

Hell, it's not even that which I find contentious. It's more like the attitude of "I don't even want to hold a conversation with a woman, they're just vaginas and they should not talk at all and just put out every time I'm horny."

That's not a DJ attitude, it's the attitude of someone who has serious social problems and problems with seeing women as people.

Aliens are demons too pretending to be aliens. It's part of the deception. When millions of people go missing, they are going to blame it on mass abductions, when in reality it was the Rapture. Again, what you describe sounds demonic. This is why I got attacked on the second.
It's 3 am and I'm going to go to bed, 'cos I don't know how we got on the subject of demonic aliens o_0
 

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It must be a really depressing world to be a man in when women are just p*ssies to stick your kn*b in and literally nothing else.

Marie Curie? Beyonce? Sylvia Plath? Uma Thurman? These aren't all interesting and successful human beings, they're just d*ck holes you can buy for enough cash, right?

I get the impression Richard would leave a house full of young women to burn to death if they wouldn't f*ck him for saving them. Because if they're not going to get on his d*ck, why do they even exist?

It's like looking at the world through the eyes of an alien that's never interacted with humans before. It's seen people putting bits of their anatomy in each other but doesn't understand any other kind of interaction.

If I've learned anything from these threads, it's that using prostitutes twists you into a borderline sociopath that sees women 100% as sub-human pleasure commodities. I can almost imagine you bidding on women at a Russian Mafiya sex slave auction (please for the love of God don't get any ideas).
I agree 100% with this

Richard is totally a sociopath that sees zero value in women. I don't know why we even try to help him in this area.
 

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I used to hack escort sites... enjoy your malware
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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