“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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worst cold approach experience?

david90

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what is your worst experience with cold approaches?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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In a bus...

In a bus stop, I chatted some chick...

and then she said she's getting off at Elmfurst street (*street names been changed from real ones*).

Later, she got off at prince avenue which is 1 interesection away from elmfurst street.

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She had this terrified look in her eyes. I was scared too. What if she called the cops and the cops grab me when I reach the subway station?

:eek: :eek: :eek:
 

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Well, I was cold approached by a bloke in a shop a few years ago, which turned out to be a very awkward experience.

He told me I could jump ahead of him in the queue for the checkout, so I did. He saw that I had a bar of chocolate and asked "Is that for your girlfriend?" I politely told him it was for me and he said "Surely a handsome bloke like you has all the women after him, or aren't you interested?" I told him I was too busy for girlfriends and he started telling me how his father forced him to get married and how much he hates his wife. I paid for my stuff and he told me to hang on. Being too polite and friendly for my own good, I did and he started bragging about how much money he makes and telling me he has land in different countries. He asked me where I'd like to visit if I had the chance and I told him Canada. He said "That's a coincidence, I'm going there in 3 weeks". He started saying how he is a good judge of character and said that I seem like a great guy, and invited me to go with him!! I told him I couldn't afford it, but he said it wouldn't cost me anything and he forced his number into my hand and told me to call him. I said thanks and tried to leave, but he followed me and was insisting that he will give me a lift back home. I told him it was around the corner, but he was very persistent. It was only when I started walking away that he gave up and told me to call him.

Anyway, that's my worst cold approach experience. :) I don't have a problem when guys hit on me, but this one was so forward and persistent it scared me a little.

oh yeah, he left some brochures for me with the checkout girl at the shop, but I never contacted him (obviously) and never saw him again.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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He probably just wanted the chocolate bar I bought. :)
 

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Originally posted by Dirtheart
Well, I was cold approached by a bloke...
maybe just on the outside..

Originally posted by Dirtheart
"Surely a handsome bloke like you has all the women after him, or aren't you interested?"
he's attracted to ya..

Originally posted by Dirtheart
his father forced him to get married and how much he hates his wife.
he's gay.
 
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