"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Worse legal case you ever had?

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Giovanni SouthSide

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Overdose?
No, she passed away from Lupus. An autoimmune disease that she got a couple months after she met me. She was very healthy when I met her. She was 27 when she passed and we met since she was my neighbor here in Mexico.
Almost 4 years later and I am still fvcked up over it. I buried her casket at the cemetery. When you see your intimate ride or die girl in the casket , your spiritual and life views change. I am more stoic and hardened now. Resilient and desensitized to alot of sh!t. even though the pain will always be there.
But I gotta stand straight with my head up high like my nose is bleeding and keep going.
One day I will see her again.
 

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Damn you talk about the worst. I am ashamed to say, I lived a life of crime for several years. No stability, no security. Got outta the house at 14 due family circumstances. Add to that I was extremely aggressive. First time jail for a longer period I was 15. I did time multiple times in my life, for different reasons. Got into many streetfights back in the days. Got stabbed twice. Hit a MF with a baseball bat as retaliation. Went pro kickboxing and never had a fight since.

Last time was like 7 years ago tho, for some "illigal ish". Cleaned up my act, got into the art academy against all odds. Later I learned many skills such as carpentry and building bikes. Payed of all my debt, went to therapy and moved to a small town where people are simply way less confrontational.

I am actually a nice, patient guy now. Could you be looooooove . I wish nothing but prosperity for anyone. Just don't push the wrong button with me.
 

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Arrested 3 times... all charges dropped, no record. Twice I was completely innocent: one I was guilty as hell but had a good lawyer... that was in college, breaking and entering on campus in a prank... long story it was stupid and 19.
 

eli77

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No, she passed away from Lupus. An autoimmune disease that she got a couple months after she met me. She was very healthy when I met her. She was 27 when she passed and we met since she was my neighbor here in Mexico.
Almost 4 years later and I am still fvcked up over it. I buried her casket at the cemetery. When you see your intimate ride or die girl in the casket , your spiritual and life views change. I am more stoic and hardened now. Resilient and desensitized to alot of sh!t. even though the pain will always be there.
But I gotta stand straight with my head up high like my nose is bleeding and keep going.
One day I will see her again.
My condolences.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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eli77

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Arrested 3 times... all charges dropped, no record. Twice I was completely innocent: one I was guilty as hell but had a good lawyer... that was in college, breaking and entering on campus in a prank... long story it was stupid and 19.
Would you say the military is a lot tougher on those type of things nowadays
 

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I've been pulled over several times for drag racing while in high school beat the case three times was a passenger in a car accident didn't come up with any money. Was put on baker act not fun but made a good friend. So weed for a while but didn't get caught now I have a friend who's a real estate lawyer another one who's in probate and just wanted to know how you guys fared in high school or in a real world due to your legal circumstances and what was your worst case scenario.
Obviously you were wasting your time drag-racing instead of studying for English class. :rolleyes:
 

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I’m my personal life I have had a lot of legal affairs. The two biggest were an annulment with a bigamist who married me illegally, and a lawsuit against a former employer for gender discrimination while I still worked there. Many others but those are the biggest two. I have learned so much about law in the past 20 years. Aside from being a cop, I’m talking lots of things I’ve learned in my personal life with law. Everybody should learn some basics. It’s not as hard as what the main stream wants you to think it is. If you can read and have some common sense you can do a lot of your own legal affairs without a lawyer. It’s about learning what is applicable to your situation and what isn’t, based on where you are located, what laws apply to your situation in your location, and what doesn’t. For example, you wouldn’t use Illinois compiled statutes for your State civil case in Colorado. However, if Federal case law came out of Illinois and made it to the US Supreme Court, it’s fair game in a Colorado Federal case. This is just a generic example. I can’t stress this enough. It’s really worth the time for everybody to learn. I am so confident now dealing with anybody. People can’t even get near fvcking me over legally anymore. If they try they get shut down quickly and harshly. Terrance Pop is a popular red pill YouTuber and He often talked about doing his own legal work. It’s great stuff!
Any books or YouTube channels you can recommend?
 
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