"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Worried I may have got some *** inside her while fingering her

viking22

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I was making out with a girl fully clothed on her bed. She started grinding on me and I came in my boxer shorts. Shortly after I go to the bathroom and take a piss and then go back to her room. She is still excited so I finger her to an orgasm.

Shortly after I realised that as I went to the bathroom and took my penis out of my boxer shorts to piss it was most likely covered in come as I had come in my pants and I used the same hand to finger her. Most likely I did wash my hands after taking a piss but even so I am kinda worried that I unwittingly got some come in her pvssy when I was fingering her and Im freaking out.

Am I just being paranoid or should I be worried?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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I gotta chuckle at this thread. You could of fvcked up right there. But, you won't know until she thinks she is pregnat. Don't stress it unless it happens. Let this be a lesson...
 

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Yeah it would be a crazy way to get a girl pregnant. I dunno i had a pregnancy scare last year and ever since ive just been so paranoid.

Thinking back after i got back from the bathroom i chatted to the girl for five minutes then she reminded me about the massage id promised her (my excuse for coming over). I put some massage oil over my hands and gave her a fifteen minute massage and then as i could see she was getting turned on i fingered her. So maybe twenty minute delay between having to touch myself to piss and fingering her.

What ive read from a google search seems to indicate that once sperm dries it dies and even though id kept my hands moist with massage oil im guessing ive got nothing to worry about.
 

ezily

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did you post this same question on Yahoo Answers 4 days ago? All 27 responses said NO! So there. It's impossible unless you just soaked your hand in semen and then stuck as much in as possible as fast as possible. Jeez...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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same thing happened when I got head once. Very small chance and sperm die quickly outside of the body
 
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