"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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world record # of credit cards, by one man?

goundra

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bet you haven't a CLUE. google for it, "man=most credit cards" and the answer comes back 1497! If you have a $10,000 credit card, you can only get a cash advance of 2k, at most on that card. I know a way for you to get at least 7k of the remaining 8k, on EACH card, legally, and there's no way to stop you from 'cashing out" 100 or more cards in this way. :)

For 2k, you can 'build" 1/4 mill of credit in 2 years and if you can show a decent income, and be responsible with it, you can have 1/2 mill of credit in more year. If you know what to do with it, 1/4 mill of credit can RETIRE you (in the US, now) in 3-4 years. So, basically, in the same time and for FAR less money, that it would take you to complete college (and do NOTHING but pay off you student loans, for 3 years after you get your degree) you can be RETIRED. by that I mean CLEARING 60k a year without you having to lift a finger.

If you will settle for clearing 20k a year and living in the 3rd world (where 10k a year makes you 'well off", so you are saving 10k a year) you can be there, in comfort in 3-4 years. But you have to know what to do. You can use your college loans to do this, guys. But you'll need discipline, live in a garage, basement, or attic for $200 a month, etc.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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OzyBoy

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Wow. I have 1 credit card. I think it is 1 credit card too much. As for defrauding the banks of up to half a million probably isn't a good idea. :flowers:
 

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it's not fraud if you make the minimum payment, and nothing says that you have to take it ALL, or at least, not all at once. It can fund a business or other investment, you know. :)
 

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Credit card debt is easily discharged in bankruptcy. They made it just a little harder recently, but if you're below-average in income and have no assets, you don't have to pay any of it back. When my girlfriend met me, she had $40k in credit card debt. I showed her how to make it all go away, and now she has none. She even kept her car. And it was all nice and legal.
 
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