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Keeper13

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My friend is a true Don Juan girls are at his feet trying to hook up with him. Even if he is a **** to the girl the girl plays into his mind game of "stop grabbing me" etc.. I am surrounded by hot women I can even talk to hot women but I have an inherent fear of making a move...getting close... or even touching without worrying. I know this is a problem but I cant seem to get past it. any suggestions on my delliema. Imagine it hot girls all around you at parties but you just cant move in for the kill. What should I be doing or am doing wrong!? please advise. Should I be more touchy feel or try to compliment more and hope it leads further... HELP
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Cherry

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Let them know

I am considered to be very good looking, I know I am but it is embarrassing to say it. I don't go for the hottest looking guys, I go for the ones who are strong and confident. There were many guys who I knew were interested in me and I waited for them to make a move, but they never did. Even when I hinted.

I am not going to see any men for another 11 months but when I do, I am hoping that my friend gets the nerve to ask me out because he is wonderful. I just know he won't do it and it is frustrating. I have done so many things I am ashamed of, I just don't want to pursue, I want to be pursued.

Does that help at all for you. You might be surprised at their reaction.

I am friends with one of the men who writes stuff in here, very good friends and we had something going for a while. He is the one who said I should take time out to learn more about myself, and many of you wonderful guys said the same thing when you read my first post.

Hopefully I am returning the favour now with good advice for you.
 
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