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World Domination: The Journal and Quest of RyanJevo

ryanjevo

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Hello folks. Gather around. This will be a fun ride.

So my name is Ryan. Not exactly sure where to start, but here's some background on me.

I'm about 135 lb and 5'11. In 11th grade and turning 17 on January 25th. My life has been quite a ride. I'm a bit different than most kids I know, which has been a blessing and a curse. I learned early on how ****ed up and cruel people are, which matured me immensely. So I've become a very mature person, much beyond my years. But I'm still a kid, and love to be a child. Everyone has to keep the child in them or you become a boring adult! GOD FORBID! :nono:

So **** that. I am on the precipice of becoming a true DJ. Imagine a bird staring off into the brilliant distant sunrise on the edge of a cliff. I am that bird. I must jump and flap my wings to fly into the sunset: the beauty and possibilities that life holds. I was raised to be a nice guy and a gentlemen. I originally always put women first and did their bidding and asked permission before I did anything. But **** that, amirite? I learned slowly. I was going up and down with depression and such two years ago. But then I started learning pick-up, inner game and then found sosuave. This **** changed my life. It allowed me to realize that I am perfect as myself. And to become the best version of me I can be. That is what I did. I worked on being positive, making my life happen and working towards my goals. Now I'm real confident, not afraid of who I am and embrace all that I am. I ****ing love my life.

I FREAKING LOVE MY LIFE! It's seriously awesome.

I've done well. I'm a lawyer on my mock-trial team at school. AND HOLY ****. I just checked my semester's grades and I got a 4.0 weighted. I did not expect that ****. Lot's of tough stuff has gone on in my life so I haven't given two ****s about school. Damn. I am a DJ with a big entertainment company, so I basically get paid to go to parties and play music for people.

I also attend this summer camp which changed my life. It's called headwaters. This place worked on my inner core like nothing else. I learned discipline, confidence, wisdom, and love for myself there. The leader there, Tim, is like a father to me. Always helps me see through my bull****. I really suggest checking it out if you're near the west coast, U.S.

Basically, it's a wilderness skills camp. So I know how to survive in the woods. Make fire from sticks I find, build shelters ( I was doing a three day solo trip into the woods and I made a shelter so tight, it kept me dry in ****ing drenching rain. Just made from sticks, pine bowes, and bark. Tell me if you want to hear stories.), sneak through the woods, etc.

I'm like a woodsman ninja. And my school knows it. So everyone calls me mountain man. I have respect at my school. Everyone knows RyanJevo and they revere the name. I'm VP of my class.

So I have a lot going on for me in my life and a whole lot more I want to accomplish. But interestingly enough, I don't have girls all over me. And I think it's because I haven't been trying really. I didn't care about girls much cause my life was happening. I haven't been showing interest, escalating, or getting laid. So I'm going to start that.

Now I'm ready to get my sex life and love life crackin.

Goals regarding women/people:

1. Approach tons of women to get over my AA
2. Achieve inner confidence and become great at conversation
3. Work on my comedy, be able to make anyone laugh
4. Perfect number closing, kiss closing, etc.
5. Get over my fear of escalating and kino(not hard, I'm just used to being reserved/nice guy
6. Understand human dynamics to the point where I can just be part of the flow.
7. Become much more sexual and ESCALATE​

Goals in life:
1. Start a website
2. Get back into programming
3. Learn guitar and piano
4. Start a band
5. Get straight a's
6. Start a martial art
7. Begin a club at school to get people out into the woods.​

So as you can see, I have lofty goals. All are achievable. I'm using Sammo's guide to getting all my goals done.

So enough background.

Meow, my current adventure with women:

Check my last thread.

Basically, I'm going to handcuff the girl. Metaphor for banging the crap out of her on friday. Don't know where... but maybe the park. Ahahaha. She's the main girl I'm pursuing right now.

I have another chick who is down to be ****buddies, but I'm not because one of my good friends was pursuing her. So it's a decision of my morals whether or not to bang her. But now my friend is with another girl, so I'm ridiculously tempted to devastate her womanhood.

Then some other girls I have been kinda talking to. But I am too busy to pursue them.

I'm doing the DJ bootcamp. I suggest you all do it.


So that's my goal. Approach tons of women I do not even know and get their names in the least. I'm gonna start at my school tomorrow.

Expect field reports.

So hit me with questons, comments, or anything. Let's chat. I'm a fun dude and let's help eachother.


Tl;Dr: I'm gonna rule the world.
 
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Im gonna skip all the AWESOMENESS above and move to my concerns:
Remember that this, like life, is not means to an end. It's not a destination you can achieve. It's a proccess you go through, which will always make you a better person.

Not everyone is going to like you.

Do not focus on things you can't control. It's a waste of time & energy. You cannot control, nor know, everything.

I can help you with starting a website/business / guitar / I've also been in 2 bands / Did kickboxing for 1 year. Feel free to PM me.
 

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January 25th, 2012: Entry #1
Boot Camp week 1
Goal: Approach 10 people and get their names,


Day 1



I keep an active journal and write in it after I approach people to reflect upon my actions. That's what the self-notes are.

Girl 1: Walking to class, heard some ladies discussing how the police weren't giving out stickers to people anymore. I turned around and showed my disbelief. I was enthusiastic and had a smile on my face. I said, "WHAAAT?!" She then began to tell me all about how she was in a coffee shop and she asked the cop who said that they didn't have the budget for it, I ragged on her and said he was probably just messing with her and didn't want to give her stickers, then I asked if she had seen super troopers( cause those cops mess around with people constantly.) But she said she wasn't very experienced in watching movies. I looked at her with a look of slight disapproval but with a smile and asked her, "What are you ****in blind, that's like the only excuse for not seeing that movie." She laughed. Interestingly enough, she asked ME for MY name.

1/10

Girl 2:Walking to class again, saw that a girl was having trouble putting film into her camera. I said, " You havin some trouble there?" She couldn't figure it out, so I offered to fix it for her. I messed with her and said, you've been taking photo class for one semester already and you DON'T KNOW HOW TO LOAD FILM?" She laughed as I fixed her camera and taught her how. Then asked for her name, shook hands and we departed.

2/10

Self-note: Confidence increasing. This is easy!

Group 3: I said hi to an acquaintance and his friend was like, OMG you're a dj(records) aren't you? Then some girls came up and I looked at them as said, " You're gonna walk up here and not introduce yourselfs? Where are your manners?" So they told me there names and I introduced myself. They were shy. ahahah.

5/10

Self-note: Still kinda cautious to cold approach during school. Tomorrow I will cold approach 5 goups.

Side-Fun:Then I went to a group that I know and starting ragging on this girl Tyler who had turned down a date from me before, and got the entire group to start laughing. I didn't even think, I was just making people laugh. It was great.



So yea... 5/10 on the first day. My actual goal is to get like 50 people by this weekend.

I'm also gonna talk to this girl I got drunk with at a kickback a couple weeks ago tomorrow and get her number. She's been eyeing me. Kino and humor and confidence!

I've also been reading tons of material about inner game. Read DJ Bible introduction by KillaPeteHog all day during class. Helps keep my mind in the moment and my soul pumped for growth.
 
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^My butters rock solid. I didn't even know that could happen, it's just turned into a hard brick of fatty goodness. Also, it has weevils in it. Not sure how.

Don't try and control people, it's unattractive and unattainable. Just be. Norway is right.
 

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Jack Wealthy said:
^My butters rock solid. I didn't even know that could happen, it's just turned into a hard brick of fatty goodness. Also, it has weevils in it. Not sure how.

Don't try and control people, it's unattractive and unattainable. Just be. Norway is right.

Ahahaha.

And you two are right. controlling isn't the right word. Nor is it a Don Juan quality.

I guess moreso... control myself. Just be.

I changed it to what I really feel is the true goal.


And ****, I thought it said any person. LOL. But hey, any approaches can't hurt. All helps alleviate the fear.
 

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January 25th, 2012: Entry #1
Boot Camp week 1
Goal: Approach 10 people and get their names,


Day 2


Didn't conciously approach anyone today. I was too busy. It was my birthday and I had meetings at lunch and such. But I had a great day! I just started learning guitar, and I think I am addicted. I've been looking for a passion in my life that is infinite and truly a deep passion. This may be it.

*Heel click*
 

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**** YEA. High five bro. That looks perfect!

I'll definitely be pming you soon man. My fingers hurt from pressing the strings. And I love it. :rockon:
 

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Ahhh, it's always nice to see new blood. Especially the kind that isn't completely socially inept. :D

Headwaters place looks f*cking awesome - it sounds like something I'd do.

Where you at, man? It's obviously America, but where exactly? I'm trying to build a network of DJs so there's always a wingman around.

Also, I love the title. <3
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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songsterr an ok website, but it often includes wrong tabs. I suggest you download *cough ilegally cough* guitar pro, install it and then get the tabs from www.ultimateguitartab.com

Great progress btw, you've got great style and seem like an awesome person!
 

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amohield said:
Ahhh, it's always nice to see new blood. Especially the kind that isn't completely socially inept. :D

Headwaters place looks f*cking awesome - it sounds like something I'd do.

Where you at, man? It's obviously America, but where exactly? I'm trying to build a network of DJs so there's always a wingman around.

Also, I love the title. <3

Bay area in california my man. Your self?
 

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Ryan you seem chill, and im glad to know theres people like you in bootcamp that are interesting that i can keep pace with haha. Best of luck to ya and your goals bro.
 

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Didn't approach many people, but had a great time today regardless. Sat next to this girl hb6 in spanish class and we hit it off and just started having a great time.

We got onto the topic of food and I was telling her all the amazing meals I can cook and she said, " I want to taste some of your food!"

All I could think of is "She wants my hotdog! AND MY CHILI SAUCE!"

Almost impossible to not crack up. Anyway, told her to give me her number and I'd show her a thing or two sometime. She lives legitimately two minutes away from me walking so if that isn't perfect booty call I don't know what is. :trouble: :moon:
 

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ryanjevo said:
Bay area in california my man. Your self?
Bahrain right now, but my hometown's Virginia Beach.
So you're officially my California wingman! Congrats! WOOOOO! :D
 

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Now I would look forward to both ya'll. It makes me so happy to see you guys, like me, at such a raw age, 16 or 17, working so hard on their character and growing! Everywhere I see stagnation and it's tragic.

Hey guys, want some advice. So I asked this girl out on a date in the past to a fancy restaurant. Anyways she was busy and said rain check. I took this as a no, because if she really wanted to go she would have changed her schedule. We've known eachother for quite awhile and been good friends.

She invited me over this weekend to make some food and watch some 80's movies. We did this before and it was really fun. Thing is this girl is a straight kino master. She just kept touching me that night. But I have no idea if it's just her kind of friendship or if she is legit attached to me. Like yesterday she leaned her head on me, kept touching me, and she, in the past, often does little things like that.

I think she has seen the recent change in me and wants a taste. Anyway, I'm going for it no doubt. She is a HB9 and just a closet freak I'm sure. I'm thinking of being very exciting and playful. Lots of well placed and well-timed kino. Then once we are watching movies together in her room, lead up to kissing.

When I first come over I think I'm gonna have her empty her pockets then pick her up and jump into her pool. That could go really well or really bad. Depends on the smile I have when she surfaces pretty much, eh? Could really amp up the excitement and the unpredictability that makes every one hot and sweaty.

So any tips on escalating and breaking that tension? You could sense the sexual tension in her a mile away because she has only had one boyfriend and I don't know if she has messed around since him.

Cheers mates. And thanks. I look forward to being the life of the party with my wingman when you two come!
 

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Bite her!

After seeing a friend of mine do it, I tried it myself. It always evokes the funniest reactions. It just works.
 

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ryanjevo said:
When I first come over I think I'm gonna have her empty her pockets then pick her up and jump into her pool. That could go really well or really bad. Depends on the smile I have when she surfaces pretty much, eh? Could really amp up the excitement and the unpredictability that makes every one hot and sweaty.
LOL yes that's awesome. And you can't stay in those wet clothes for very long after that ;)
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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