“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Workplace warfare.

Lion

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I've recently started in a new place of work.

I get called in when my boss needs me, much like many of my fellow employees. We are on a list, like a pool of workers, and called up successively.


I feel like Im sometimes in competition to prove myself and covertly earn more work than my other employees. :D I want as many hours as possible.

:box:


Basically I need to find out if someone is stirring things up for me.
I need to sort this out.



There are two main contingents involved, I will refer to them as:

Guy 1.

Guy 2.

So Guy 1. is a pretty easy going person who I get on with ok. He gets full time hours, despite starting the same time as me.
This is his only job.


Guy 2. is also easy going and someone who I get on with but not as well as 1. Hes a little older and more focused in life and has another profession as well as this job.







Quite randomly, Guy. 2 told me this afternoon in the car on the way home.

"You should watch out for that guy. 1, he said some funny things."

Today at lunchtime my boss asked where I was (in the office waiting for some paperwork to be faxed through). We are often out and about and not always on view.

"Guy 1. said you (me) were sitting in the office on my a** being a lazy B*stard"


I replied to guy. 2 in the car, "hes probably trying to make himself look like a better worker than me" brushing off the sudden piece of advice.


My instict says guy. 2 may be stirring things up for me and that guy. 1 was joking about me being lazy, perhaps humouring the boss?





What should I do:


A: Confront guy 1. asking him if he said what I heard he said.

B: Ask guy 2. for more info on what guy. 1 said (who else was around etc.. for proof)

C: Take my boss aside and clarify what actually happend.

D: ......?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Do all three and get to the bottom of things or just forget about it and wait to see if anything else arises.
People often get the wrong end of the stick so it could just be a missunderstanding.......or a huge conspiricy!!!!!!!!
 

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haha, yeah, I guess I just needed to write things down and get them off my mind. My job means a lot to me :)
 
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