"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Workouts on consecutive days? (Advice needed)

L777

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The recent undertaking of a new job and my studying, lectures etc have meant that its only possible for me to get to the gym on Mondays, Tuesdays and Fridays, ie, 2 workouts on 2 consecutive days.

Is this a major problem, I mean, obviously I work different bodyparts on Mon. (chest, triceps, traps) and Tues. (Back, biceps) and then Shoulders and legs on Fri.

Should I switch routines, keep it as it is, do Monday morning/tuesday evening etc? Advice would be good.

Thanks a lot
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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blinkwatt

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You will be fine going consecutive days,just exercise different muscles.
 

EFFORT

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go on tues and friday. You can make some sick gains on a 2 day split
 
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