"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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goodfoot

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I'm 5'8", 140 lbs. I've been doing this workout for about a month. My current workout is:

Monday, Wednesday, Friday

I do a core workout and run for about an hour (I run 6 miles in 54 minutes), or I do a mile warm-up and then do sprints. As I lower my time, I'll add more mileage to keep it around an hour.

Tuesday, Thursday, Saturday
I alternate between these two workouts

1.
Chest press
Right now I do 5 reps, 3 sets at 135 then 5 reps, 4 sets at 150

Wide-grip pull-ups
When I started I was doing 4 sets of 6, and I would have to cheat a bit on the last two sets. I'm now doing 4 sets of 7 with good form.

Dips
3 sets of 8. I am contemplating using a belt and adding 25 lbs of weight.

Dumbell bicep curl w/twist
3 sets of 8 (I saw someone else do the twisting part so I copied it lol)

2.
Deadlifts
3 sets with 110 plus the bar, 4 sets with 120 plus the bar

I don't remember the name of this exercise but you basically step up on a box with a dumbell in each hand, 3 sets of 10 reps with each leg

Back extensions
3 sets of 8 and I hold a 45 lb weight

Calf extensions
3 sets of 25
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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goodfoot

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I had to leave and couldn't put all the info. I weigh the same as when I started but I can already tell I look bigger. I plan on adding a couple exercises for my forearms because they seem out off proportion. I don't have my dirty pinned down. I usually drink a glass of milk with whey protein added after my workout. I think I need some kind of carb/protein pre workout drink. Any suggestions for that would help a lot. I plan to alternate between squats and deadlifts every two weeks, which would be every three lower body sessions. I think there are a couple holes in my weightlifting workout and could use some help. Thanks.
 

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Like you, I can only make it to the gym 3x a week (school and work take up my other time)

My routines look something like this; it was suggested by a friend of mine:

DAY A:
Back and biceps:
Dumbell/bar curls
Rows (bent over, upright, seated cable)
Pull ups
Back extension

DAY B:
Triceps/Chest:
Dips
Bench press
Dumbell or cable flys
Tricep pullover


DAY C:
Shoulders and legs:
Military press
Squats
Shoulder dumbell raises
Toe raises
Shrugs

I'm also trying to work in some cardio on the weekends; usually 20-30 minute high-intensity sessions

I try to vary the exercises now and then to keep my workouts from getting boring -- as long as the right muscle groups are being used


Also, post a more detailed diet for further help.
 

Medwin

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Hi dude,.
Your Workout plan was great and best for the newbies also,.
Its complete with all body parts exercises,.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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GameTime76

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What are your Goals?

Have you only been working out this past month or doing this routine for a month?

lifting weights is only one part of building muscle. the other parts are your diet, water and sleep.
 
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