"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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BongDuy

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What are some songs that get you juiced up? Songs that get you pumped and wake you up? Ill start off with some of my favorites

Like a Stone- AudioSlave
Show me how to live - Audioslave
Never too late - three days grace
Cowboys from hell - Pantera
Shoot from the hip - Change of pace.

Anyone got any good suggestions? Hip hop/ Rock/ Techno, it doesn't matter
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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WhitePimp

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Fear And Wonder/Blessings Upon The Throne Of Tyranny - Dimmu Borgir
Reptile - Dimmu Borgir
This Day We Fight! - Megadeth
Wake Up Dead - Megadeth
Angel Of Death - Slayer
Bitter Peace - Slayer
Arise - Sepultura
Beneath The Remains - Sepultura
Overactive Imagination - Death
Leprosy - Death
Spiritual Healing - Death

I pretty much listen to this playlist in the gym every time; heavy, fast, and loud
 

ENIGMA16

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Converge is all I need. I load my Ipod up with all of their music and I'm good to go.
 
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