"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Workout length?

Climax

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hmmm....

I work out 3 times a week and my work-out lasts for about 1 and a half hours. (I do between 300 - 400 crunches/sit-ups) which takes me about 30 minutes.... then i do boxing/kickboxing/karate/ and speed training... which takes me about abother 30 - 40 minutes... then i run on a tred-mil for about 20 - 30 minutes (2km run)

other than that, i play alot of soccer, i swim, surf, club ( lots of dancing is a workout and a half... especially at those trance parties;) ), and i do alot of walking around (Eg: when i wanna go to the beach (10 minute walk) i will rather WALK there than drive there) ... So i think that my work-out is good-ish... or am i mistaken? Anyone wanna comment on this? plz do.

Otherwise... working out will only help u to an extent.. its also about your diet... you need to eat healthy too...

My Diet:

7am - Toast with Hot chocolate

10am - A fruit, a health bar, and a sandwitch (brown bread) with cheese or tuna etc on it.

1pm - Another sandwitch and maybe a little snack like a smal packet of potato chips

4pm - (Main Meal) Chicken, rice, potato, carrots, peas... <--- something like that is what i try eat for lunch.

7pm - A shake which contains: Whey powder, mixed fruit all blended ( i drink about 200 - 300ml's of that )

9pm - A shake which contains: 1 banana, and half a cup of milk (200ml's) and i might have a cerial or something if i'm really hungy on that day, which rarly happens.

I drink about 10 cups (2 litres) of water a day too. ( NO coke, nothing like that! )

So... is this good/healthy? If not, please let me know what i should change;) .. Thanx...

Otherwise... given the above information, i still sit with the problem that i cant get my abs to show as much as i would like them to... they do show a BIT, but hardly noticable.... what could i do to get them to stick out more? I seem to have this layer of flab over my lower stomache, which i cant get rid of, and most people say that i am too thin, which brings me to my point that its not that i am FAT or anything, i just cant get rid of that layer of flab that i have on my stomach (lower stomache in speciific)... Any advise that might be able to help me out?

Thanx in advance...


Laterz....
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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workout 3x a week. lasting from 45m - 1 hr each time.

on skinnyguy program
 

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Please Help?

Bump...

Anyone care to please reply to my query?:rolleyes:

Thanx...


Laterz...
 

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Re: Please Help?

Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
Bump...

Anyone care to please reply to my query?:rolleyes:

Thanx...


Laterz...
So what's your objective?? Are you cutting? Bulking??
 

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6 pack...

Originally posted by Nightwing
So what's your objective?? Are you cutting? Bulking??
I want to get my 6 pack to stick out.. i wanna get to a point when they look similar to M.O.M (Mind Over Matter's) abs... and ya... the rest of my body is ok, just that my abs have always been a pain in the A$$ because no matter how hard i work them, no matter how much i try, theynever wanna stick out, and that layer of flab is just sitting there and doesnt wanna go away... and seeing as my workout SHOULD make me loose that flab, it just doesnt.. my whole body is thin and muscle etc, its JUST that little part that has flab that doesnt wanna go away.. what am i doing wrong? :confused:

thanx for the reply in advance;)


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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Cut the sugar out man. No hot chocolate anymore.. use sugar subsitute.. at first it isnt great but after 3 days you get used to it.


Honestly, i dont remember the last time i drank pop, or ate ice cream.

Cut alcohol too, i drink may be once every two weeks, and i drink har liquor instead of beer.


If you are cutting, why take whey powder? (unless you lack protein).
 

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Oxide's right, you got to cut the sugars. Use something like Splenda or Equal if you want something along the lines of a sweetner. You may want to check out this book,

A Flat Stomach ASAP by Ellington Darden.
 

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oh?

Oxide: Thanx for the tips... I take whey powder because apparently that helpos in the building of muscles (my abs) .. i dont know... is this wrong to do?:eek: Otherwises... I dont drink alot of alchohol at all, and i NEVER drink beer.. i might grab myself a spin here and there, and a few vodca's on the odd accasion;)

Nightwing: Do you know where i can downlaod or read that book online? otherwise.. thanx for the reply:)


Laterz...
 

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5 days/week. 30-45 mins
Usually only 45 mins if I'm talking too much to other guys there.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Re: oh?

Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
Oxide: Thanx for the tips... I take whey powder because apparently that helpos in the building of muscles (my abs) .. i dont know... is this wrong to do?:eek: Otherwises... I dont drink alot of alchohol at all, and i NEVER drink beer.. i might grab myself a spin here and there, and a few vodca's on the odd accasion;)

Nightwing: Do you know where i can downlaod or read that book online? otherwise.. thanx for the reply:)


Laterz...
Check out AMAZON. COM. You can order the book used for less than $5 or $6.
 

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Shweet!

Originally posted by Nightwing
Check out AMAZON. COM. You can order the book used for less than $5 or $6.
kewl kewl... thanx;)


laterz...
 
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