"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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workout for singers

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catworks said:
Hi, new to this forum and site, just got into the bodybuilding idea and just learning as much as i can. Really wanna get down to losing weight and getting lean muscle. 20 male here. currently my weight is around 195 and 5 ft 10, body fat is 19%.

Goal is to cut to around 155 pounds.So i'm looking at an cutting programme. i'm guessing i should not train to become big, should go for the tonned look like brad pitt and keep on maintaining it.

Reason is i'm a singer doing gigs for clubs and pubs and i thinking about what effect weight training will bring. From what I read, strenous workouts with free weights or natilus(powerlfiting, bodybuilding) don't benfit the voice and that The main problem with muscle conditioning exercises (like sit ups, crunches) is the possibility of tension in the neck and shoulders and to Avoid any exercises that encourage or lead to shallow breathing, neck or shoulder tension.

So it is recommend that the best programme i should do is toning or circuit trainig with smaller weights and mutiple reps to keep the body flexible and increase aerobic capcaity while reducing pressure against larynx and the workout is balanced between all muslce groups.

Am i right to go with this plan? I found one pretty good toning article by BIG RED, http://www.teenbodybuilding.com/bigfem.htm but it was for female, haha, not sure it would work for me? If not, Anyone can recommend one? Thanks for reading and looking forward to advice from the more experienced and knowledgable posters.

You should follow the guidelines in the article. It will work. As long as you dont eat junkfood and work out/do your cardio, you should lose weight. working out and doing cardio will increase your metabolism. When you force your body to burn more calories than you eat, bodyfat will be burnt to make up for the energy loss.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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