"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Workout diet advice

FearlessEngineer

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Hello DJs,

I'm new to this forum and I've learned so much in one week. So thank you all!

I just got out of my comfort zone and got a gym membership starting Monday.

I'm 5'8 and 145 lbs, and have trouble gaining weight.

I just want to know if you have some workout diet example or advice to give.

Thank you.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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FearlessEngineer

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3 meals per day.

Usually, some meat (chicken, sausages...), pasta, vegetables. I live alone and I'm not a good cook by the way.

Thanks
 

FearlessEngineer

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Thank you, I'll try
 

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You just have to eat, eat, eat then eat some more. There is really no secret. You just have to get your calories in. I suggest checking out this site to get a good idea of amount of calories and macros. http://iifym.com
 

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FearlessEngineer said:
Hello DJs,

I'm new to this forum and I've learned so much in one week. So thank you all!

I just got out of my comfort zone and got a gym membership starting Monday.

I'm 5'8 and 145 lbs, and have trouble gaining weight.

I just want to know if you have some workout diet example or advice to give.

Thank you.
Alright, in order to gain weight you need to put in more calories than you burn, plus enough protein to build muscle. So, if you eat 3 times a day, try adding in two or 3 snacks in-between meals for more nutrients and or possibly eat more during your main courses. Theres also protein shakes as well and Mass Gainers. If your having trouble gaining weight, dont worry about some strict diet... Eat desert, eat McDonalds, you just gotta gain weight! If your training hard along with it, you wont be a fat slob. Some people bulk and cut too often and go no where, they stay the same. Others "cut" when they no longer see their abs and never really gain overall mass... Its easier to cut fat later and then let your muscles shine!. Or if you think you are getting "fat" put the fork down and eat cleaner foods.

After you get your diet right, you need the proper program. Stick to basics, find a program you like, stay with it. Train hard and make gradual progress. If you dont like the program or it just aint working try another one, just dont hop around too much or you wont go anywhere.

Good Luck!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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