“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Working your way up from 5s to 9s?

LDD

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As per title. When people who are starting out to approach more women etc, is it a better idea to try gaming 5s and 6s first then work your way up to the 9s?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

bukowski_merit

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I think it's a bad idea to approach women based on a number you assign to their attraction.

Do you find the woman you're looking at attractive?

Yes - Approach her.
No - Don't approach her.

The level of attractiveness shouldn't influence the decision to approach or not.
 

Willard

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I rate women on a 0 or 1, 0 means I'm not attracted 1 means I am attracted. If you treat all women the same whether they are attractive or not, you will be better off because you won't treat the attractive ones any different, so you won't put them on a pedestal.
 

Mike32ct

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It's not really about looks per se. Use your gut. What chick SEEMS like one that would go for you AND that you are attracted to? Doing target selection by HB number only is very inefficient.

But if you MUST go by numbers, then yes, work your way up.
 

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I'm so critical of 9-10s when I talk to them. I think they are all shallow deceptive gold diggers and they have to prove to me they are not. I'm much more comfortable with a 7-8. Every single 9-10 I have encountered is so FOS I don't even try to get their numbers.

Potential faults aside to find a 9-10 that can actually have any kind of intellectual conversation and is still single is nothing short of a miracle.

I gave up on the 9-10 range long ago. I'll hesitantly make conversation but will jet at the first annoyance.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Don-Kong

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I don't even know if she's good looking or not until I'm 2 mins into conversation. Why? Approach approach approach. Who cares what they look like.

Building the vibe and momentum is the sh1t. But yes, go from opening guys, ugly girls, couples, hot girls then hot groups if you want a challenge.

Personally I just want experience the approach because I'm building a strong foundation so that it's easy in the future
 

HowardHughesDicaprio

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I don't see it as a pure beauty thing on the 1-10 scale but more of a cliques thing. If that 9 or 10 happens to work at a Gamestop or is more of a nerdy kind of girl then go for it, she might be down for a nice approach. A 9 or 10 that is part of less shallow cliques is always going to respond better than a 6 or 7 that is a part of the more shallow groups.

I would approach a 9 happens to work at a bookstore or is in a graduate class of yours then you are better off approaching her than approaching a 7 that happens to be a part of the more popular crowd in your given location.
 
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