“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Working third/overnight shift

Dice52987

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I work the overnight shift at my job from 11pm to 7am, and it drains the hell out of me. By the end of the night when I get home, I don't want to go anywhere or do anything. It's not like my job is physically demanding. I work security at a hotel. A posh hotel at that. Any of you guys go through that? How do you get yourself up and out?
 

Aragon034

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i used to work 4pm to 1am at home depot. exhausting as **** though the work was actually pretty easy.

this was during my younger years (18-20) so i would compulsively go out on the weekends.

there's a solid stretch of about 8 months where i can't remember what i did that weekend because of so much partying.

but during the week i was like you, sleeping, unmotivated, and generally cranky.

i had a bonus though, plenty of decent looking girls worked there as well and i was never bored.

unless this is your career, look for a job with better hours. it's taxing as ****. the joke around my job was i was a 20 year old who looked 30, and felt 40 from working so late.
 

jacob

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yep used to work graveyard and hate it. the worst hours. I saw on 20/20 a study saying that the graveyard shift has the most burnt out employees. I guess it's just unhealthy, since almost every species are active during the day then sleep at night.
 

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I work night shift 6pm-6am. I really make it a point to get to the gym at least 3 times a week to keep in shape and it keeps my energy levels up. I work Sun-Tues so the weekends are pretty much free for me. I love it..but thats just my preference...

Actually I'm at work as I post this ;)
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

L B

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Unless it is a preference of yours or a stepping stone to another position, don't do it. I was a night hotel manager for over 2 years when I was in college. I quit as soon as I got my degree. My 2 weeks notice took over a month because they couldn't find anyone to replace me.

There are benefits: you get a lot of errands done in the morning, no traffic and most people are working.
 

OzyBoy

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I work 12am to 8am once a week and i think it is a piece of piss. I get a little rest when i get home and then get on with the rest of the day.
 

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I use to work doorman 12am to 8am graveyard shift. I can relate it was draining as hell to see that sun light once you get off your shift. I would sleep and workout it would give me a boost of energy. The other thing I would do is bring some fruits to keep my body from not being weak. The nights I didnt workout or bring some fruits to work I would get off so drained like no soul or body.
 
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