"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Working the Neck/Shoulder area?

sonick182

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I need some feedback on something..

First of all, im a pretty skinny guy.. about 5'6" but only about 118lbs witha super high metabolism. I've gained more than 10 lbs since i started working out in august, so im proud of that. I have fairly good toning (due to lack of fat lol) in my chest, abs, and biceps (forearms and triceps are coming along, but very slowly... Im working my deltoid, its gettin some nice definition)

The thing is htough, i noticed that when i have my shirt off, you can see like my collarbone and the bone that connects to the collarbone in the shoudler is very visible.

Is there anyway to get some muscle there to get some broader more muscular shoulders?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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jakethasnake

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Oh my god. You used to weight 108??? :eek: :eek: :eek:

That's just... gross. :D When did you escape from Auschwitz? :D



Sorry, that was mean. I can give you tips, though.

if you want to build up your shoulders to enhance the v-taper look, the best is probably military presses. And if you want to get rid of that "bone connecting to the collar bone", then the only way is to do incline bench presses with dumbbells, proabably at 30, 45, and 60 degrees. You ahve to work it HARD to build muscle to cover up the bone in your upper chest area.


don't forget to eat, eat EAT. You have to eat until you become nauseous since you're a very hard gainer.
 

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Yep, do inclined bench presses like a fiend. You can also beef up that area by doing trapezius (traps) lifts.

Traps are the muscle that connects at your shoulder and runs to the base of your neck.

Work them with seated rows, or standing lifts. Stand up, hold the weight at waist height, raise straight up to your chin. Since its a bigger muscle, use heavier weight, lower reps. But remember, form and technique always supercede weight.
 

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This is going to sound a little strange but...try squats.

I've been squatting a lot this year but doing no direct trapezius work and I've been very impressed with the growth there. Squats works so many muscles that I shouldn't be surprised but it was a nice side benefit nonetheless. :)
 

misunderstood??

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Definetly do some incline bench press work, switch between barbell and dumbells, try out some incline cable or dumbell flyes too. Upright rows and shrugs will also help you out some more.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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