"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Working out without weights

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Ok. I wanna start off this thread now so I have some time to know some things.

Basically, this summer Im not gonna have acess to a gym for about a month or so. So I was wondering what kind of workouts you can do to build strength using bodyweight.

Im guessing that I can probably do variations of some excercises (Like pushups) to work muscles harder: Like having my feet higher so that more weight is put on the upper body.

But what else? I might be able to use some books for weight (Big dictionary) or something, but what kind of body weight workouts are there that build strength and muscle?

I am asking this because most body weigth excercises build up endurance and are more like cardio, not like building strenght and muscle like pumping iron.

Thanks in advance.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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when your doing pushups... do different kinds to work different parts. wide grip for inner chest i think. triangle and close grip for tri. also, if you want to rest your legs on an elevated object like a chair, desk, etc. or you could have a friend put a little bit of pressure because a book will fall right off.
 

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pushups
dips
Situps
chinups
pullups
body squats
 

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Fill a backpack full of rocks. Then you can do pushups and squats and stuff with some weight. Then go hiking with this backpack and get a rock hard ass.

Get on your hands and walk up a wall with your feet. And do pushups but for your shoulders... it's pretty hard. Your body should pretty much be straight up and down.
 

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If it's only for the summer work on toning your body. Save up a hundred dollars and buy a bench second hand.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If its only for a month, then why not go on a mini cut. Send me a pm and i'll help you set something up.
 

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Could always try some pylometrics.
 

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Use Isometric exercises.
 

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manbearpig said:
Use Isometric exercises.
Do that and destroy your body's anearobic abilities... smarrrrt
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You can do bodyweight exercise circuits (run a search for some) - good for building GPP (general conditioning).

You can also try to perfect unilateral movements (i.e. one handed push ups, one legged pistol squats, one handed chins etc.)
 

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Rowing is possibly the most perfect exercise there is.
Boxers are second fittest only to rowers.
 

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Ok. Thanks for all the info. I think what Ima do is go 5 days of excercises followed by 2 rest.

I will make a 5 day split including:
Pushups (And Variations)
Pullups
Sittups (And Variations)
Dips
Body squats
Rowing
Sprinting
Biking (Road and Trail)
Also I am gonna try and get a heavy bag to hit :box:

All that and Ima go on a mini cut for about 3-6 weeks. Any Sugestions?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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flippinfreak said:
Do that and destroy your body's anearobic abilities... smarrrrt
What the hell are you talking about?

I guess the Army doesn't know what they're doing then. I learned Isometrics from my uncle who learned it in the Army.
 

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5 Day Split Draft

Here is an idea of my 5 day split. I will go into more detail (Reps, sets, variations) later. Tell me what you think.

Routine 1:
Rowing
Dips
Sittups

Routine 2:
Pushups
Pullups
Body Squats
Power (Spring) Jumps
EDIT: Adding Lunges
Sprints

Routine 1 on Monday, Wednesday and Friday
Routine 2 on Tuesday and Thursday

Saturday and Sunday:
Rest and Recovery

I will do Variations of Dips, Pushups, Pullups, Sittups, and Body Squats
 
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