"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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working out while being sick

orpsinnet

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i couldnt find any definite answers on the internet or the search button here, so i figured id ask the guys here at the health n fitness forum. as u can probably guess from the title, i currently have a cold, sore/itchty throat, cough, congestion, but i think the worst is over. now its just the annoying time where it settles in my sinus's and i cough my left lung up. normally i wouldnt stress out about taking a week off, its good to let the body get a good recovery once in a while. unfortunetely the last couple weeks ive been on vacation, so my regular routine hasnt been done in a while, and i dont wanna go 3 straight weeks without doing anything. in a little over 2 weeks ill be trying out for the varsity tennis team at my university so i need to be in my best physical condition. generally i do a lot of conditioning, biking, swimming, sprinting, actually playint tennis, weight lifting, so i was wondering if a light routine would be ok or not. extending my recovery time because i pushed my body is definetely not an option, but sitting on my butt isnt exactly something i wanna do. any input would be appreciated.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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orpsinnet

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thx man, website helped a bunch. thats exactly what i was looking for
 

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dont do it unless your training at home. your just gonna get everyone else at the gym sick and thats just some scumbag behavior.
 

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If you feel you're physically up for it, go for it. Otherwise, rest and recover.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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naoi deag se deag

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I lifted while I had strep throat. Actually made me feel better. I used to go to swimming practice while sick because it made me feel better. Just make sure you wipe EVERYTHING down.
 
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