"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Working out in the SUMMER?

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How are you guys gonna go about this. I mean u may have vacations... etc.
For me im gonna want to be surfing AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE ( meaning like 4 days a week if im able to..**** i would go everyday if i could lol) but im gonna be too sore from working out... and i dont wanna just stop over the summer .. ( cuz then i have to gain back some muscle) so what do u guys think i should do?

Oh and also i need to also lift for strength around that time.. (since ill need it for surfing... i guess especially the abs and shoulder..? and ill need a lot of endurance as well so i dont get tired from paddling..what do you suggest???)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Fred Da Head

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Cut on both.. workout less often (3 days a week, for example) and surf a bit less. That way you'll do both, but not be too badly exhausted.

I don't recommend doing a sport 4 days a week and working out 5 days a week.. tho I never surfed so I wouldn't know.

About the strength... surf-specific I don't know, but you should work on being stronger/having more muscle. If you're strong your muscle will produce more power with less energy, so you'll be slower to tire. Oh, and don't focus on only two parts, unless they're a lot weaker than the rest.

My $.02
 
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