"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Working out home?

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Guys, is it possible to work-out 'properly' at home?
(Well I've been doing it till now.)
I have only 10kg(about 22 pounds) hand-lifts.
I do various kinds of exercices with them and I'm also doing situps and pushups...
I'm also kinda scrawny guy and I'm following Pook's 'No More Scrawny Guy!" post and eating as a horse now.


Any ideas?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My upper body looks quite good already.
Just need lil bigger shoulders...

Soshyopathe, what squats are you talking about?
 

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The ones where you put weight on your shoulders, and act like you're taking a dump 8-12 times. Like this, but with more weight. You cannot work out properly period without squats. Your upper body would be better off doing ONLY squats than doing no squats at all.
 

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These days, I don't have much time to go to the gym to often, so I fashioned a crude set of free weights made out of bags of dirt and an old wooden broom handle. I have bags in different sizes-- 10 lb, 15 lb, 20 lb, and 25 lb, so this enables me to fine-tune the weight.


To make it heavier, I just add another pair of bags. I took great care to weigh the bags to be sure that they are pretty much the same weight.


Behold! My ghetto curling set! :)

With that, I can work my biceps, triceps, and even do military presses, and for free w/o having to pay gym dues.

I'm currently working on a larger version that I can bench and squat with.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Page, that's hilarous....I would seriously recommand getting rid of the broom handle and buying an iron bar or something that will not break.
 

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Originally posted by xyzzy
Page, you've watched one too many Shaolin movies... that is killer
Yeah, the training sequences in "36 Chambers of Shaolin" and the "The 8 Diagram Pole Fighters" are off the chain. Some hardcore shyt.
 

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Oh shyt.
Hmm.. What if i stand on my hands and lean on the wall and sty some squat.??
Gotta try!
...

:eek:
*Ouch.*

Okay, that doesn't work. Belive me I've tried.


Well I might join you soon Page!

Im going to find an old broom and some crap to fill the bags..
Then I could "fine-tune the weight" like Page too.
HAHAHAHAHA :D
 

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Alright then, send me some damn money so I can buy some proper weights.

As a working student, I am always seriously strapped for cash. :)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by Page
Alright then, send me some damn money so I can buy some proper weights.

As a working student, I am always seriously strapped for cash. :)
You should sell your book.
 

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i have a workout book that has examples of how to do all exercises without using any equipment. it had some great ideas but i never used it because i want to get my use out of my overpriced gym membership.
 

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Originally posted by DIESEL
You should sell your book.
Nah, I learned the stuff it in for free over the years, so it's only fair that I make it free too.


However, I am going to make a trimmed down version (with all of the Don Juan-specific stuff stripped out) and sell it as a motivational book to the general public. It will deal with unlocking your true potential, mastering control of your mindset, time management, etc.


I believe I will call it "Unlocking the Power of Your Mindset."
 
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