Working on techniques... First date

[crimsonclockwork]

Hey guys. I been on this site under various names for about 8-9 months. During the school year I was pretty much an AFC, but was improving. Finally the last few days of school-and it hit me. I spent the last 3 or so months of school just not caring about girls. That has really helped me out alot. Now, I got this date with this girl later on today. Let me explain the situation:

Back when I was an AFC, I asked her out with only going on one date with her, and she gave me the whole bull**** story, and sugarcoated it with 'I want to get to know you better'. It was that day I really decided to start working on myself. The main thing was to forget about her. Easy. But, since then, everytime on AIM or when I was walking down the halls, she would tell me hey, or IM me constantly. Still does. So, this summer, I been on a few dates, lots of get-togethers with friends and girls, and met up with her a few times. We really hit it off, so I asked her to do something for today.

I could use some advice. My friend was talking to her and she said that she hadn't gotten any in a long time, but I am sure she wants to hook up with him also. Im not looking for a long term deal, just someone to chill with and then get some. I know she wants to get some, but how do I go about her getting to know I want some too. When I mean getting some, Im talking about making out and the likes, not sex.

How should I approuch the whole date? When I first meet her ect. ect.

...And any links on kissing?

Thanks guys.
Later on today I will post some experiences on how to improve yourself. I am no noob, but just under a new name.

 

[kevbo]

i recommend you look up the post called innuendo. i'm pretty sure it was by Brazilian_Blues_Boy. that will probably help you move in.

 

[crimsonclockwork]

That was a good read... Her good friend talked to me and said she invited her and some other guy... I think shes getting flaky. Should I still try and go in for it, or just forget it. Im thinking more along the lines of forgetting it-I don't want to waste any time.

 

[kevbo]

well, you've got to decide if you think she's worth your time. if you consider it a waste, definitely forget it. in fact, that would be my choice.

 

[bibby18]

i wouldnt forget. especially if you a) have nothing else to do and b) are not looking for a long term deal. go on the "date" do what you gotta do. if she rejects you no big woop. if she doesnt, then well....GOOD WORK