Working on something togheter

[jhonny9546]

This further reinforces my idea of a "small business", when a man has his own project, whether it's a company he runs to make a living, and the woman works alongside him, helping and sharing in the project together.
Plenty of examples here in Italy and Japan, I'm not aware of US, but I think about it too.

The video explains it very well. The concept of having that "thing" togheter.

This is why for a man the most important thing is to find something you can enjoy doing in life that can make you money and that you can be helped on from a woman.

 

[The Duke]

Most affairs start at work because thats the easiest place to facilitate the process of getting to know someone.

If someone is going to cheat they will find a way. Nothing you do will stop it.

Working with your spouse will cause too much familiarity. Nothing will be news. You won't get a break from each other. Sounds draining and boring to me. Plus I don't want some woman telling me how to run my show.

 

[SW15]

Working with your spouse will cause too much familiarity. Nothing will be news. You won't get a break from each other. Sounds draining and boring to me.

That sounds terrible to me. People need a break from each other, even if they like each other.

I don't want some woman telling me how to run my show.

If I were a business owner or a top executive, I would not want that either.

 

[jhonny9546]

Hmm, so, what factors contributed to the stability and longevity of these relationships?

 

[Scaramouche]

Hmm, so, what factors contributed to the stability and longevity of these relationships?

Hi Jhonny,
Mutual superiority.

 

[The Duke]

Hmm, so, what factors contributed to the stability and longevity of these relationships?

Performing each others roles to a high level, and supporting one another in those roles. Looking at the big picture, and in it for the long run.

I have 6 uncles on my mom's side of the family. There was only one divorce between 7 of them and it was with a ceating bipolar woman my uncle married. The common theme in the entire family was the men ran the business, and made the money. The women they married ran the home and the kids. Some of my aunts worked but they weren't career women. These were strong men with supportive women on the submissive side.

I also think it makes a difference on where you live. Living in major cities makes it easier to cheat. When you live in a small town in the Midwest, everyone knows your business and there aren't a lot of options.

 

[Gamisch]

I'm gonna make two posts.

First of all, you are somewhat correct . Because you can definitely work on something together. That should be great memories, fun times , stability, exiting sex life ect.

But here's where you go wrong; you are looking for a way to trap her into something permanent so you are guaranteed she won't leave you.

Another one to write in bold letters: her job is to serve /support you ,period. You could run any type of business, her job is solely to support you and once it dark outside to make your d1ck hard, and not your life.

That's it.

 

[Gamisch]

Second post: you might actually find a woman. But..you will step into the same life as your father. Why? Because as a beta man you can definitely find a woman who will keep you under her thumb and run circles around you...if you are willing ( and able) to be a beta provider/ server who lives by the phrase " happy wife happy life" there will DEFINITELY be one woman on this planet willing to role with you. She'll be angry ,cranky, controlling, bitter and unpleasant to be around while you'll be walking on eggshells.

Now, I know this is NOT what you want. So it's about time you ditch this search for ways to get around what really needs to be done..you need to work on your frame continuously and accept nothing but the best treatment, all on your terms. No negotiations. You need to be the king, the one who built his own empire brick by brick. The woman who enters your life needs to obey your law.

I know many many many men that do have " a warm body" next to them every night, but the prize they pay is the fact it's a woman that doesn't respect them at all. They are scared to voice their own opinions and get bullied by their partners. But hey...at least the outside world thinks they are "real men" because they get to post some pictures on Facebook every now and then

 

[Scaramouche]

Performing each others roles to a high level, and supporting one another in those roles. Looking at the big picture, and in it for the long run.

I have 6 uncles on my mom's side of the family. There was only one divorce between 7 of them and it was with a ceating bipolar woman my uncle married. The common theme in the entire family was the men ran the business, and made the money. The women they married ran the home and the kids. Some of my aunts worked but they weren't career women. These were strong men with supportive women on the submissive side.

I also think it makes a difference on where you live. Living in major cities makes it easier to cheat. When you live in a small town in the Midwest, everyone knows your business and there aren't a lot of options.

Hi Duke,
Human dynamics has always interested me,and not just in Male/Females...As a Young Man growing up in a Private enterprise environment I observed most of the Companies involved two Guys,one got the work,the other got it done.My company was like that,one was a workaholic,a veritable tyrant! Slide Rule in hand,rolled up shirt sleeves,touselled hair,cursing out anyone who got plans out of order in the drawers...He lived at the office,driving past at 10PM his lights would be burning....The other? A Playboy,drove a gull wing Mercedes,Never in the Office,he was a member of every influential Club in Sydney,he golfed he sailed Yachts...Though a Jew he attended Mass and was a Freemason!...My job for him was to keep his Office Spic and span,Monday morning I had to polish his desk which took half an hour,as it had to be like a mirror,then I had to attend to his entertainment unit report to the Secretary on Liquers,whiskies needing replenishment clean the decanters and trays....Though a slacker,who was the more valuable?Him!Donkeys are twenty to the dozen LOL....But something that maybe interesting to @Jhonnie When one of these companies broke up,it was often because one partner had interfered in the others domain.

 

[jhonny9546]

Performing each others roles to a high level, and supporting one another in those roles. Looking at the big picture, and in it for the long run.

I have 6 uncles on my mom's side of the family. There was only one divorce between 7 of them and it was with a ceating bipolar woman my uncle married. The common theme in the entire family was the men ran the business, and made the money. The women they married ran the home and the kids. Some of my aunts worked but they weren't career women. These were strong men with supportive women on the submissive side.

I also think it makes a difference on where you live. Living in major cities makes it easier to cheat. When you live in a small town in the Midwest, everyone knows your business and there aren't a lot of options.

I know the situation; it's the same here in my country.
But it's changing, for example for those of my generation.
Women work, and men (who you say have their own businesses) are too busy with work, and women cheat on them.

I'd love to hear what kind of men they were, if they were using carrot and stick or non violentopen communication

to make your d1ck hard, and not your life.

Modern women makes both. Btw, great posts!

Your second post really describes what I’m trying to do. Since I changed my attitude, my sisters see me as unpleasant (and they match the type you describe, authoritarian, disrespectful, unhappy).
Even women I meet say things like, “You're so particular, we can't say anything to you.” But for me, it’s about respect. Just like you said.
Still, this attitude often makes me feel more and more alone, because I apply it not just to women, but to everyone in my life.


That said, I have a lot of experience with women who don’t show respect, family, friends. It’s kind of cultural.

Do you have examples from the other perspective?
Where you’re the king, and women and people around you show you real respect?
Tell us more about that.

ps:

They are scared to voice their own opinions and get bullied by their partners

this is what makes me feel alone in conversation with most of people.
There is a radicated thing in culture that a man should take "sfottone" from her woman everynow and then. Its like a prank.


@Scaramouche What is your story telling?

 

[jhonny9546]

This man explains how, according to his studies, a couple is simply two random people who like each other, who do things together that they enjoy, and who work on one or more projects together.

Here's another confirmation that "working on one or more projects together," whether it's running a business, taking your son to soccer practice to watch him become a player, or simply something else, is what keeps a "healthy couple" together.

I invite you to listen to it with English subtitles and I look forward to your thoughts.

 

[Beyond It]

This further reinforces my idea of a "small business", when a man has his own project, whether it's a company he runs to make a living, and the woman works alongside him, helping and sharing in the project together.
Plenty of examples here in Italy and Japan, I'm not aware of US, but I think about it too.

The video explains it very well. The concept of having that "thing" togheter.

This is why for a man the most important thing is to find something you can enjoy doing in life that can make you money and that you can be helped on from a woman.

This is delusional and lacks understanding of the nature of women. Or worse, a personal misinterpretation of what he understands their nature to be.
it’s still about having to have a female to readily access. You are a prime target to facilitate her hypergamy even higher. She WILL cheat or leave you.