"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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OK, there's this particular chick I've had a thing for awhile. She's been out of town for college and she just came back, telling me how she's down to hang out.

There's a football game on Saturday, but I work Thurs-Sat nights at a club... I figure I can catch her late and take her to an afterparty.

Last night she calls, and I try to just not answer, but I accidently press accept, say oh ****, and hang up the house phone. The main problem is that I had a girl in the other room, but I also didn't want to talk because I wanted there to be a little mystery in my whereabouts. Like an idiot I called back, said what's up--the other girl comes in the room and I have to act like she's one of the girls that comes to the club and she wants to know where an afterparty is, and I start talking to her like a three year old so that the girl I'm with doesn't get suspicious. Disappointed, she says sorry to bother you.

How can I recover from this tactfully, and what's a good time to call her this weekend to set up a plan. Should I try a date before work, like a movie and some wine back at my place to talk, or do you think I should stick to my original plan? Thanks!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Looks like you haven't been gaming for a long ass time.

The objective is to get laid. Do whats works for both of you.
 

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I left it alone. I threw a party on Saturday, sent out a mass text, and I get a call from her right when it gets packed. She comes over with three of her girlfriends. I game her for a while, don't pay too much attention, play host and bartend some... simply ask her if she wants to see my room. We go in, I kiss her after some fluff talk. The door is open so we go back out, but we keep flirting back and fourth. Suddenly my buddy (I threw the party with him) disappears with one of her friends. Her other friends are distracted while I go in there with her, finger her for a while under the sheets, play a little deeper than 'just the tip', and then one of her lame friends comes in and says that my buddy locked the door with their drunk friend. SUCKS.

She messaged me yesterday telling me how she's a good girl and she hopes I'm a good guy. I figure I'll wait it out for some other opportunity and go in a different direction while she decides if she wants a good guy or not.

(AND WTF? Out of the game for a while? You think that every guy on this board just has women bowing? Nah, I like to hear different strategies. COD you are one lame dude, comment after your nuts drop.)
 
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