"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Working on an approach of chick working at the mall.

bootlegger

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I've been reading the bible,and working the excercises but only since Tuesday...

But there is this girl working at a store in the mall, we made eye contact a couple of times, a couple of smiles, and when she walked out of the room, she turned and smiled at me.

Albeit she works retail, and probably has to act like this. But I don't think this was general courtesy.


I was going to approach her next time, but I really don't know what to say to avoid looking like some sleeze bucket. Of course, the clothes she wears are from the store that she works, so that's not a good opener.

What would a DJ do? WWDJD?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Next time you see her...

Keep the eye contact and walk up to her (maintaining the EC), as you get close extend your hand and smile.

"Hi, my name is bootlegger".

Shake her hand. She will likely tell you her name. If not, say "And your name is..." She'll finish the sentence for you with her name.

Then you say "You're very attractive (Or beautiful or cute, whichever one you feel is true). I'd like to get to know you."

I'll let you take it from there.

Oh...don't even think about replying to this with something like "Oh no! That's supplication. I can't do that!". Don't give me any bullshiet. Just do it.
 

waterboytke222

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i met a girl at the mall one time when i was working there back in my younger days.. she worked ina booth in the walkway in the middle of the mall, i worked in a store.. it'd be slow and i'd be looking out into the hallway and i caught her eye a few times.. flashed a few smiles and on one rainy day i was in the window of the store waiting for her to look my way.. when she did, i gave her the "hold on one minute" finger gesture and bent down and wrote on a piece of big white stuffing paper "did you fart?"..

she got really excited trying to see what i was writing..i flashed a big sexy smile and help up the sign.. her jaw hit the floor and she turned red.. she started shaking her head no in disbelief..i turned the paper over and wrote "well it wasn't me" and held it up..

that made her smile.. i waited til the next morning to say hi to her..

two days later i used the same line ...in bed....


cale
 

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I have used this one successfully -- met an 8.5 HB working the counter at a store around Xmas a few years back. Got the eye contact, got a smile, left the store, then turned around and came back a few minutes later. There was a line of people at the counter; I had to cut in front of them, and I had to make it quick. It just came to me:

"Excuse me, I forgot something."

HB looks at me. "Yes?"

"I forgot to ask you if you were single."

The old lady she was waiting on smiled and stepped back about half a step to give us some room, and once she stopped blushing, the sales girl admitted to me that she was, in fact, currently single.

I took her to dinner that night.
 

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Just go talk to her. Who knows, in a few days you could be squirting some warm baby batter all over her t1ts & face. If you dont end up banging her, someone else will. Chicks in malls are the best to talk to because they except people to ask them questions. Go talk to her & post your results.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dont make it look like you came just to talk to her and you should be fine.
 
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